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David asks…
What happens to unsorted recycling?
When I was growing up, we always had to bring our recycling to the center all cleaned and sorted out, and we put everything in its respective bin, separating green and brown glass, newspapers, magazines, etc…
When I moved for my job, the first time I went to the recycling center with my neatly sorted bags, they just dumped it all into one bin. What happens to this kind of recycling? Does it go to a sorting center, or might my town just be “pretending” to recycle? Just seems odd… and inefficient. Anyone else ever heard of this?
The Expert answers:
They pay YOUR tax and/or private funds money to hire sorters who work on a convater belt. They do it for you basiclly. Sometimes they pay for it,however
Mandy asks…
how do you become a RECYCLING MAN?
my boyfriend is 20 years old and has like 10 college credits.
what should he do to become a recycling man? are there jobs you first do and then move up? what are they?
is there an education you need to go through?
what should he do to get started? what is an example guideline to wats steps to do to become one?
thank you!!!
The Expert answers:
Look on your city’s website or go to the chamber of commerce or look at the logo on the side of your trash can or something. Whatever you do you will manage to figure out the name of the company that picks up your trash. Then get their address (possibly by calling them).
Get your boyfriend to write up a resume where he explains his education and any experience he might have had (e.g. A club he was in in high school). Don’t worry if the resume doesn’t have much on it as being a recycling man is not a job that requires many qualifications. Also make sure the resume has his contact information on it. He can research more about resumes and cover letters if he wants this part to go especially well.
Then tell him to go to the recycling company’s headquarters with his resume (and possibly a cover letter) wearing some clothes that are nice-looking but casual. (For example, a long-sleeve button-up shirt and slacks. Tuxedos are too formal, shorts and a t-shirt are too casual.) Tell him to try and find someone who’s sitting behind a counter who looks kinda like a secretary. Then he can say something like “I’d like to apply to be a recycling truck operator.” as he hands her his resume. He could also say something like “Do you think we could go over my resume together?” or “When will I know whether I’ve got the job?” Either way, you want the person behind the counter to say “We’ll try to get back to you by .” Then when rolls around, if they haven’t gotten back to him (not uncommon), he can go there again (probably with an extra copy of his resume just in case) and ask politely if they’ve read his resume or not.
Eventually if he’s persistent they will probably either give him an interview or tell him they aren’t hiring. At the interview he should just wear the same nice stuff and try to answer the questions he’s asked in a friendly way.
Note that he can apply at multiple recycling companies at once if there happens to be more than one nearby. If more than one offers him a job, it’s OK for him to politely reject one of them. My guess is that being a recycling man pays relatively well because of its low prestige. Good luck. I hope that wasn’t too long.
Michael asks…
I have a couple of recycling questions?
First I know that everything can be tossed into the city dump but is there anything that can not be recycled?
second. (I know this will never happen) If it was required thatevery city dump have a recyling center would it then create more jobs(always a good thing) and also go a long way towards cleaning up this mess on our planet?
The Expert answers:
I know styrofoam CANNOT be recycled and it does not decompose. So avoid it at all costs.
Betty asks…
An argument about recycling ?
So there was a recent debate at my house about recycling. Obviously one side thinks its necessary to save the environment… The other side says that by not recycling we are creating jobs. And in this economy, that’s important.
What are your thoughts? Do you recycle?
The Expert answers:
How does not recycling create jobs? That sounds like utter nonsense.
I suggest not buying bottled and canned beverages and buying a simple ceramic water filter for drinking. It will improve everyone’s health and the longevity of their lives significantly. Soda is full of phosphates that hinder digestion and imbalance your body’s calcium use causing musculoskeletal problems later in life. Other drinks like Gatorade contain food coloring containing toxins like lead, mercury, and arsenic in minute levels that accumulate if you consume a lot regularly.
Water is the key to life. It aids in body function, digestion, and removal of toxins.
That should solve a majority of your recycling problems.
By the way, it takes more (fossil fuel) energy and costs more money to recycle than to produce from scratch. But it’s important to keep petroleum products like plastic and Styrofoam out of our landfills.
Paper and cardboard are different. They are easy to recycle and there is no good reason not to.
James asks…
I have an interview with a recycling company, outside work. Do I need to wear dress clothes or nice jeans?
I have always thought that since the job is a dirty hands on blue collar job that its not necessary to wear dress clothes to the interview but rather a nice pair of jeans and nice shirt? Please help me out.
The Expert answers:
I would always go with a dressy outfit. You want to make a good impression.
Charles asks…
Poll:Should we use robots for dangerous jobs to assist workers in all of heavy labour and industries?
Nothing is impossible anymore. It could reduce costs and workplace injuries and fatalities. Should recycled metals, nuts, bolts and witing be used to build robots and should they be powered by batteries or remote control? Militaries should think about this:the more they use robots for dangerous tasks the less casualties? Should the militaries hire engineers and roboticists (even the retired ones) to build more robots. Technology is evolving.
Think about it.
The Expert answers:
Thier two reasons why this is a bad idea
one, have you heard were in a recession, if you make robots take over human jobs, them people, (the same people that lost their jobs) will go out and steal food, money, just too feed their family. And if that happens a robbery that goes bad and ends in murder increases like crazy
technology is ment for small populations of the world,
second, watch I ROBOT
Mary asks…
How many day’s should I leave it – poll?
I have to wear a Polo Shirt for my recycling job. How many day’s should I leave it befoe wearing/chancing wearing a Long Sleeve Football Shirt under my Polo Shirt. Would you say 2 day’s or 4 r a week or 2 weeks or other? – if you can add thanks.
Thanks.
The Expert answers:
I would just leave it for a while a week maybe, when it is a really cold day just wear one underneath and then pull the sleeves up a bit, you could even wear the long sleeved one in the same colour as the polo shirt.
Daniel asks…
What are jobs associated with concert venues and festivals?
What are some jobs associated with independent concert venues and within entertainment companies that put on events like Bonnaroo and Lollapalooza?
Please share anything you know. Duties of different positions, schooling or degrees required, anything like that. I’m a business student and I’d like to research more into the entertainment industry.
The Expert answers:
I’m not doing your homework, but I will give you some jobs associated with these events. You can do the research on what education is required for each.
Security — entry searches, patrol of grounds, crowd control at stages, VIP safety, liaison with local police officials, K-9 officers
Vendors — selling food and merchandise, wholesale supply of vendor tents
Sanitation — cleanup on continuous basis, maintenance of portable toilets, hand sinks, and showers, general cleanup after event, disposal of garbage and recycling
Construction — build perimeter fencing, grandstands, and stages, installing water lines, installing cell towers, installing electrical systems, restore grounds after event including grading and reseeding
Maintenance — install and maintain cooling equipment, refrigeration equipment, electrical service, water system, golf carts, etc.
General — ticket takers, customer relations, lost and found, PR liaison with media
Medical — preventative health screening for employees, operate first aid tents, operate cooling tents, liaison with nearby hospitals and ambulance services
That is just those who work the venues, then you have everyone who works for the promoter including administrative assistants, public relations, producers, purchasing agents, security experts, logistics experts, and on and on.
At Bonnaroo, some of the vendors are volunteers from area non-profits who work in exchange for a ticket and for a donation to the non-profit agency. Many of the security people are area law enforcement officers who work on their days off. And much of the maintenance (cooling, refrigeration, electrical) is done by local contractors who are on call.
Lizzie asks…
How does recycling helps to save the environment?
Very often, people forget or misuse the word for recycling.
Almost every year about 800000 trash and waste have been thrown away.
Some of it in the waste are recycled materials.
So is people taking into consideration in protecting the environment?
So what is the public view to this matter?
The Expert answers:
Exported waste subject to recycling and materials that can not be recycled for reuse. Collecting used bottles, cans, and newspapers, the organization points of acceptance and collection of such material is only a first step in a series of steps in the chain of export, processing and disposal of garbage. These steps, in turn, generate and provide many financial, environmental and social benefits that can be both local and global.
The benefits of recycling and processing of exported waste.
Disposal and Recycling protects and expands jobs and increasing (due to the introduction of economic laws and regulations) the competitiveness of enterprises.
Disposal and recycling reduces the need for disposal and incineration of waste exported.
Disposal and Recycling prevents pollution caused by the manufacture of products from raw materials (recycling).
Disposal and recycling saves electric energy.
Disposal and recycling reduces greenhouse gas emissions that contribute to global climate change.
Disposal & Recycling saves natural resources such as timber, water and minerals.
Disposal and recycling helps protect our environment for future generations.
Steps for recovery and recycling of waste exported.
Recycling involves the collection of secondary raw materials, which otherwise could be seen as unnecessary waste sorting and recycling of waste into raw materials (such as fiber), the production of raw materials for new products and the purchase of refined products.
Collection and processing of secondary raw materials, production of secondary purchase recycled products creates a circle or loop that ensures the overall success in the creation of profit in the disposal of waste exported.
Step 1. Collection, disposal and recycling.
Methods of garbage collection can be “certain” – it all depends on the policy of economic activity in a particular territory, but there are four primary methods: curbside (search), drop-off (intermediate storage) centers, buy-back (return) centers and compensation programs.
Regardless of the method used to collect waste for recycling, the next stage of their supply chain is usually about the same things. Items for recycling are sent for sorting and preparation for further processing. Secondary resources are bought and sold like any other commodity, and prices for these materials vary and depend on the conjuncture of the market.
Step 2. Production.
After cleaning and sorting materials for recycling are ready to go to the second part of the process of utilization. More and more new products today are made from fully or partially recycled secondary raw materials. Simple household items contain recycled materials: paper and paper towels, aluminum products, plastic and glass containers for soft drinks, canned food, etc. Recycled materials used in innovative designs, such as the recovered asphalt roadway, due to recycled glass, or plastic coating such as walkways and benches in the park from recycled plastic.
Step 3. Purchase of products for recycling.
Purchasing recycled products completes the recycling loop exported garbage. “Buy Recycled” at the legislative level for businesses and private consumers, plays an important role in the successful process of recycling.
As consumers demand more environmentally friendly products, manufacturers will continue to increase demand for the production of high-quality refined products!
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William asks…
Pet store tale, true or not?
I came across this on an internet forum where people were revealing the ‘nasty unknowns’ of jobs they have had in the past.
“Pet shops only sell 2/3 of their puppies before they get too old, become less desireable and therefore less profitable. So, every quarter when The Puppy Truck arrives with new replacement pups, the older ones are loaded on the truck and returned to the breeders to be “recycled” into feed for something else. If it was widely known that all pet shops who sell puppies participated in this you can imagine the results. Therefore The Puppy Truck is designed to hide what it is. It’s a clean white unmarked semi on the outside but stainless steel wall to wall and floor to ceiling inside with small cages along the walls. No lights inside. The sound of three dozen barking, yowling, crying 8 week old pups in that metal box is beyond description. The drivers arrive at the stores after hours to do the swap. They have keys. No employees are -ever- told when they will come due to the fact they love animals and would likely quit en masse if they knew what was taking place. In fact as a rule they are not told about any of this. They order new pups from a breeders FAX sheet and the pups come and go without warning. Only the owner/manager knows and they don’t talk. ”
Do you buy it?
(P.S. Yahoo suggested I put this in Pets>Fish)
” You would also have to be a WEIRD FREAK to wanna kill animals on purpose” we do kill animals for meat. When we have livestock that is unfit to use for human food (like they are too old to be good meat) we grind them up and use them as protein additives in animal feed.
If someone is so heartless to run a puppymill keeping an adult mother in a small pen constantly churning out fresh puppies to sell, do you really think they’d balk at ‘disposing’ of puppies too old to be sold?
Do you think every puppy in a pet-store is eventually sold? Do you think the puppy store brings their too old puppies to the humane society animal shelters?
There are many products like magazines and newspapers and many fresh vegetables, where they only sell 2/3rds and the rest pass their ‘freshness date’. The companies price the items so the 2/3rds that are sold pay for the 1/3 that expires. Do you think that doesn’t happen for puppies?
The Expert answers:
If it’s true it’s just plain sick. All puppies are beautiful, even when fully grown. It just sends out a horrible message that pet-shops care only about making money, not the animals they sell. How old is too old? Is what I’m left wondering… I hope that isn’t true. Gosh the $hit people do for money, why can’t we all be decent human beings, just for a little while?
I’d like to think every puppy in a pet store is eventually sold ( 82 misspellings? )
Interesting point you make about livestock there…
Sick people these days…
Paul asks…
Parents who can’t control their anger?
I feel like my parents can’t control their anger.
All my life, when my older siblings were children, and since he knew my mother, my dad has been angry and known to have fits of rage. I remember him throwing a chair when I was about three. And he screams, punches walls, breaks things, and generally scares me. Because of that I don’t really like him and have little of a relationship with him. Now that I’m 16 I appericate him for taking care of my family and all that and he’s not as scary anymore.
He gets mad at small things and blows up on them, and when him and my mom are drinking they fight which is what usually leads to him get mad, goes somewhere in the house alone, my mom bothers him, he starts screaming, busting a wall or something, and my mom crying. They’ve been close to getting a divorce.
My mom on the other hand always has to talk loud. Like she gets annoyed with my dad or is proven wrong and she starts almost yelling. In general she talks loud to us when she’s trying to control us and tell us what to do. She gets annoyed with small things. She just emptied the garbage and was outside, than she comes in slamming things, and starts yelling at me how it’s pretty much my fault there are rats in the garage because of the recycling bins we have, and I enforce recyciling, and she starts going on about how I’m sooo lazy despite the fact I take care of the dogs, clean the kitchen, and help her with things more than my brother or father do. My brother doesn’t do anything to help the house out, has no job, my mom use to use the excuse of him having a job so he wouldn’t have to mow the lawn or even put his dishes in the dishwasher.
Like she was fine before she took the garbage out than she comes inside three minutes later yelling at me and having a fit.
I don’t get mad about it anymore. I use to but I don’t want to end up like them so I’ve been working on being less mad and annoyed. I just say things like “Really, you’re going to scream about the garbage” and ask her why she’s yelling at me over something stupid.
I feel like my parents lack communication skills and how to handle things. Like they’re over 40 years old and they always get super annoyed over the stupidest things.
Is there anything I can do? Or any advice or any input on dealing with my parents?
The Expert answers:
My dad is a bit like that…gets overly mad over little things…he like almost explodes, starts swearing at my mom my sister and me and starts doing what hes doing roughly. My whole life i have thought of a way to help him or do somethibg about it and seriously i doubt theres anything you can do..well actually if u think you can convince them of going to some kind of Psycologist that would probably help but reading how ur parents are it might be hard…this is all i have come up with…hope you can find a way to deal with them…the other option is to keep ignoring them like you have until ur older..luck!!!
Thomas asks…
What the hell am I supposed to have on a resume?
I have NEVER had a job in my life. I’m 17.
How am I supposed to create a resume? I have nothing to put on it.
I’ve volunteered with a friend at a music venue a couple of times working at the concession stands and cleaning the bathrooms. But that was only like 5 times and it was probably almost 4 years ago. I’ve also volunteered at a library working on the computer doing posting for the libraries blog, but that was so boring, that was only about 2 weeks and I decided to stop going cause I hated it, I was only doing it because I had to get community service hours.
I was in an advanced after school drama class, I have no interest in acting, but I was only there to do the stage design cause It seemed fun, that lasted about 2 weeks but then they cancelled it.
I was also into the green group (focuses on recycling, environment, etc.), I went to one of the meetings, but then I just started not caring.
I also went out one time with some ppl during school to go out and pick up trash around the area.
If I put those things on my resume, (leaving the fact that I just stopped volunteering at the library) would they contact those places?
I go to the gym everyday, I do my online high school classes, I love animals, I’m fluent in spanish, I like being around people of different ethnicities, I enjoy pretty looking things, I like helping around the house. Are those things that would matter?
The Expert answers:
Most places where you apply for work at 17 don’t require a resume. They usually ask you to fill out a job application form that they provide.
You do want to have references to put on the job application form, though. You want to notify your references before you put their names and contact information on anything. That is your real need, references. Let’s see where you might drum some up.
Do you have teachers for your online high school classes? Have your work habits impressed any of your teachers enough that they would recommend you as a good employee?
Is there anyone at the gym who could recommend you based on your daily attendance, as someone who is committed, maybe?
Donald asks…
Am I a conservative ……….. ?
I don’t relate with many conservatives of today and I call myself an Independant Constitutionalist. But after reading a little from conservatism long ago,I seem to relate more with those older cons ESPecialy compared to those of today. Here’s how I feel. I would like to reduce some of the jobs of the government. I beleive that federal authority should override state authority much less than they do. I also want to make it a point to add that history show us that bad things happen when certain groups are given either to much or to unique power. I think Gov should crack down on corporations over certain things to keep down greedy manipulation of the masses. I wont detail all that but other than that and the few examples i will give,i tjink that the people,their state and fre enterpriZe should do the rest.I think we need them for certain things like police,security,border control,military. Given the fact that I also think that those example ls of government power should be less in some and more in other areas. For instance,I think our military presence in the world should be reevaluated. To save money and to recycle some of those forces toward our US Mexican border.
The Expert answers:
Those are all conservative values. The problem with today’s conservative is they have bent for liberal insanity.
Lisa asks…
How would you ask, implore, people to please?
please stop being so harsh in their judgments, their treatment of you. To please consider that I am 63 years old, I have been through hades. I deserve kindness, good treatment. I deserve to be treated well, not be treated so
harshly. I beg them to let me get out of my apartment and go shopping without getting into my auto. They are killing me by making me stay in.
I beg them to tell me how I am offending them. I am not driving a gas guzzler. As little as I drive my car, I hurt nothing. besides that, I recycle and am thrifty.
I am poor. I do not have the money to give to charity without doing without.
I have no really close friends here, just some acquaintances. I am not putting those few down. I am grateful for small favors. I cannot buy protection money from a church. I cannot afford to tithe. Right now, I am too ill and in too much pain to go to church. i am not able to work. I am scared to death regarding my health, with good reason. I do not want to die. Please please stop harassing me. Stay out of my apartment. Don’t make personal references vaguely.
Be yourself. I came here to never see those people back there again, and hopefully no one who reminded me of them. Please treat me
decently.
I have very few belongings. Most of them were not obtained in the town where I lived before coming here. I am keeping my auto. I bought it when I was
a licensed Professional Capable Competent REgistered Nurse who was
qualified, able and competent to do her job, and did it well. I am sick of the
perfectionists who fall way short. I am sick to death of the self righteous
holier than thou double standards and the straining at a gnat and swallowing a camel.
Where I came from, I was a prisoner., not for real, not deserved. I had committed no crime. Told all I was gay so no man would have any interest in me. I was told where to shop, where to work, where to sit in church, what I could wear, how to wear my hair, what shift to work, etc., etc. I moved. I went where I wanted when I wanted. Of course, I cannot dress the way I want to. I must wear clothes that fit, and I cannot afford new clothes. I cannot. I cannot afford to get my hair done. I will go or not go to church as I please. I am not a church member and have total rejection, for the denomination of which I was previously a member. I will not harm them.
My auto is mine, they did not give me anything, never. I am not, and was not a prostitute. I retain my belief in God and Jesus, but I am not a church member, local or invisible or universal.
took pride in being an RN. I was a good nurse, regardless. You cannot
tell me I was not. I know better I earned my license by hard work and study,
I did not cheat. Stop running me down. Stop attacking my achievements and accomplishments. You know absolutely nothing at all, regardless. State your facts, your source. You don’t know the difference between a medical diagnosis and a nursing diagnosis or what a nursing intervention is. You have no right to stalk, harass, judge or criticize me for that to me unless I can
have a chance to do the same to you.
My children: They were not perfect. No one said they were. Were you treated the way we were. Did you have the abuse, the harassment, the discrimination. Did your Mom get attacked twice due to working?
Did they try to murder your children’s mother for no reason. Could there be a good reason? Did they attack your children’s mother twice? Do they want to be like their mother? Did I do anything to cause these things. No. No more than a rape victim asks to be raped. I did not deserve the diseases you probably gave me here on purpose. I have been treated like a second
class citizen. I have. Don’t say I have not. Yes. I have an apartment.
I have not destroyed it. I have not lied about anything. I lived where I lived outside here, where the cost of living was far less, but wages far far lower
for about twelve years. For about 7 or eight years of that, I lived in a horrible shack which was not fit to live in without running water a lot of the time, wood heat for a good while, no ac or ac that hardly worked at all, no flushing toilett in the winter. I carried water from the spring for a good while. I scrimped and scrimped and scrimped to save money on very little pay and put down payments on my auto and car. I vow that all the money I put down on my auto and home were from cash earnings and not credit card money. I saved at the expense of my teeth, legs, lungs, heart, guts , nervous system. No one had compassion for me. I paid two student loan payments a month, they were not federal. I payed probably thousands of interest on that. I went to a real college, earned a real nursing degree, had a real license and was harassed out of it.
I had to let it go.
Please don’t harass me to death. Please let me live in peace. I am taking no money from your pocket, no job from you. Quite the opposite. I owe no
attorneys here. I
The Expert answers:
Your question just went out of my head after the last word i read.
Mark asks…
my parents don’t buy me anything?
now, i don’t ask for much – in fact i only need the necessities but even i can’t have those. i need a coat due to cold weather (plus my old coat is 3 years old and worn out – with most of the buttons lost) and when i asked (because there are sales at this time) they said no – yet my mum is going out to buy herself a jumper even though she has way too many clothes/makeup/hair stuff. see, my mom puts her self first because she views it as ‘her money’ even though she has to support me and my siblings and my dad is plain cheap – he will say no to everything just to save money, which i can kinda understand.
my younger brother saves up any money he can get (including lunch) just so he can buy stuff he needs otherwise he won’t get anything – and sometimes my mom even borrows from him. i know my parents are broke at this time, but i help by recycling my stuff and making the most but i feel like i’m treated as if it’s my fault for existing, how my mom always makes me feel guilty for everything – even birthday gifts, when she knows i appreciate them. and last birthday i didn’t even get anything because i didn’t want to be rude.
now before you ask me to get a job, i’ve handed in CVs with no luck so far so i’m going to call them in a couple days and try again so that i can provide for myself.
do you think this is a normal parent and child dynamic? our household is extremely dysfunctional because of my parents and me and my brother have to deal with this all the time.
The Expert answers:
I think your dad is trying to be responsible, maybe not your mom. Some parents put themselves first because it’s their money. I don’t think that that’s right, but it is how it is.
Keep trying to get a job. Once you’re independant, you will feel a lot better. You’ll actually have money for what you want, and it will be your money, and you don’t have to give it to your parents to borrow, etc. Maybe give some to your little brother so he can eat his lunch.
Good luck! And remember – school first. A job is great but school has to be your priority.
Joseph asks…
What would you do when blamed for things that are not your fault at work?
I work at a Chamber of Commerce. There are only two people who work here (my boss and I) and there is a Board of Directors. I take care of all the marketing, including post cards, emails, website and brochures. I made a mistake on a postcard I created for a member of our Board of Directors. I wrote the time for a seminar as PM instead of AM. This was a major mistake because the postcards went out in the mail. I could have sworn that my boss told me to write this, but could didn’t have proof so took the blame. Then I found a note in my recycling bin explaining what to write on the postcard and it said PM (with my bosses handwriting). I have to deal with this person on our BOD a great deal. She talks to me like I am a complete moron. This is compounded by the fact that I made an spelling error once before on a postcard (last year). Now I am making a different postcard for her and she claims she sent me all the information for it. I know she did not because I save all my emails and don’t have it. She thinks I did get it and this is again my error (as if I am prone to mistakes). Should I just let it go? At this point is seems a little silly to throw my boss under the bus, but dealing with a person who talks to me like I am dumb is annoying. I am planning on getting a new job soon anyways.
PS. My rant was a little confusing. It is not my boss that talks to me like I am stupid. It is another woman on our Board of Directors I often have to to marketing brochures for her. I take responsiblity for the spelling error last year. Unfortunately now that she thinks I made another error, she thinks I constantly make mistakes (which I don’t).
PS. My rant was a little confusing. It is not my boss that talks to me like I am stupid. It is another woman on our Board of Directors I often have to to marketing brochures for her. I take responsiblity for the spelling error last year. Unfortunately now that she thinks I made another error, she thinks I constantly make mistakes (which I don’t).
The Expert answers:
Honestly, I’d show my boss the “proof” that the information given to me was from them. “Hey, I found the post-it you sent me. You did write PM. Guess next time I should check with you, right?” I wouldn’t continue to allow someone to blame me for something that wasn’t my fault. Of course I’d be as nice as possible when bringing it up but I’d certainly bring it up. The email thing I’d let go since it’s been longer, but I’d definitely bring things up right away like the post-it. Then Of course I’d find another job since it’s just not working out anyway. The whole reason I’d bring up the post-it though is not to prove that I’m right but to be assertive. Don’t let people treat you like a door-mat. Insist they treat you better–and showing them it was their info- is a way to do that.
Richard asks…
Night Watchman?
A man got a job as a night watchman at a factory. There had been a lot of thefts by the workers on the night shift, and so every morning when the night shift workers passed through his gate it was his job to check their bags and pockets to make sure that nothing was being stolen.
Things were going along very well the first night on the job until a man pushing a wheelbarrow of newspapers came through the gate. Aha, he thought, that man thinks he can cover up what he is stealing with that newspaper. So he removed the paper only to find nothing. Still he felt that the man was acting strangley, so he questioned him about the paper.
“I get a little extra money from newspapers I recycle, so I go into the lunchroom and pick up all the ones people have thrown away.” The guard let him pass, but decided to keep a close eye on him. The next night it was the same, and the night after that. Week after week it went on. The same guy would push the wheelbarrow of newspapers past the guard’s checkpoint. The guard would always check and find nothing.
Then one night, about a year later, the guard reported for work only to find a message had been left for him telling him to report to the supervisor. He walked into the supervisor’s office and before he could say a word, the boss said, “You’re fired!”
“Fired?” he asked in total surprise. “Why? What did I do?”
“It was your job to make sure that no one stole anything from this plant and you have failed. So you’re fired.”
“Wait a minute, what do you mean failed. Nobody ever stole anything from this place while I was on guard.”
“Oh, really,” the boss answered. “Then how do you count for the fact that there are 365 wheelbarrows missing?”
The Expert answers:
HA HA HA HA number one the whol day 1000 out of 10 =)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)
Sandy asks…
Do You Think Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag?
Do You Think Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag?
Further to Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag may I ask Who wants to see Gillard as pro-Israel and anti-Islam?
A regular reader of this site sent this on, exact source unknown, but certainly speaks for itself.
The ALP and Israel is like a disease that no medicine can cure
Australian unionist Paul Howes loves Israel. He supports its criminality, murder of opponents, defends it from everybody and would ideally like to make love to the Jewish state. He’s also one of the key figures behind the recent coup of Julia Gillard when overthrowing Kevin Rudd.
Welcome to the modern Australian Labor Party, where Israel is a state religion.
His column in yesterday’s Sunday Telegraph is a typical rant that conveniently forgets to mention that one of Australia’s leading Zionist lobbyists, Albert Dadon, is actually an Israeli lobbyist. He wields influence but of course we can’t mention this. Furthermore, Howes doesn’t want to see that there is a profound conflict of influence with the Prime Minister’s partner working for a Zionist lobbyist who is trying to affect government policy towards the Middle East. But of course for some, anything related to the Jewish state is beyond criticism. Fat chance:
It hasn’t taken long for the double standards to emerge, in the week since our first female Prime Minister took office.
While it’s significant that Julia Gillard is our first female PM, what’s really significant is how long it took us to get there.
I’m writing this column in the Sydney CBD, where we have a female Lord Mayor and State member, and female federal MP, a female Premier and a female Governor.
In Canberra, there’s a female Governor General and – at last – a female PM. With the exception of the dual-Lord Mayor/Member for Bligh, all these women are, or were appointed by, Labor.
The Liberal Party, on the other hand, is so bereft of female talent that they’ve recycled Julie Bishop as deputy leader three times for different leaders, despite the fact that she’s not considered competent enough to hold the shadow Treasury portfolio.
But the progressive side of politics has always championed women. In my own role as a union official, we have had female leaders of the Australian Council of Trade Unions since 1996, with the newest president, Ged Kearney, taking office in the past week.
She replaces Sharan Burrow, who has been elected as the head of the global trade union movement.
Yet we’ve already seen double standards being applied to our new PM with significant media coverage of Prime Minister Gillard’s hair, clothes, voice and domestic arrangements.
The Melbourne Age carried a front-page story last week about the employment status of the Prime Minister’s partner, Tim Mathieson.
He works as a salesman for a Melbourne property company, chaired by Albert Dadon, prominent in the local Jewish community.
The article implied that, somehow, because Mr Mathieson works for a company associated with a Jewish community member, this would somehow impact on the PM’s stance on foreign policy, particularly in relation to her views on Israel.
It was one of the crassest examples of shoddy journalism I’ve seen. The implication was, firstly, that because Mr Mathieson is a man and the PM a woman, whatever he thinks about the world or who he works for will impact on what Ms Gillard thinks.
The second implication was that, simply because Mr Mathieson works for a company owned by a prominent Jew, his personal views on policy matters will be skewed by his job.
One Canberra press gallery journalist summed it up best on Twitter when he said: “I can’t ever recall a male politician being the subject of claims his wife’s job would influence his views on the Middle East.”
He was spot on, summing up in one sentence the appalling double standards applied to Prime Minister Gillard in the article. In fact, outrage over the article was so intense that even former Age editor Michael Gawenda labelled it “bizarre”.
Mr Mathieson’s employer, apart from being Jewish, is a well-known jazz musician and was chairman of the Melbourne Jazz Festival.
Following the logic of The Age’s article, one could presume that our nation’s leader will redirect the Government’s arts funding solely towards the Australian jazz industry.
Ludicrous, isn’t it? Just as ludicrous as saying that the PM is going to toe some pro-Israel line simply because of who her partner works for. It’s the type of double standards and sexist reporting that belongs in the past.
Julia Gillard has shown she is her own person. It doesn’t matter what her hair looks like. I don’t think anyone is really interested in how she dresses. It doesn’t matter who her partner works for or what their living arrangements are.
What matters is that she’s the best pe
What matters is that she’s the best person for the job and light years ahead of Tony Abbott when it comes to understanding the needs of ordinary Australians. Yes, she’s different from her predecessors, but just like Kevin Rudd, John Howard, Paul Keating and Bob Hawke, she is her own person.
Any suggestion that her partner’s views, or her hairstyle, has any bearing on how she runs the country is laughable at best, sexist at worst.
Paul Howes is national secretary of the Australian Workers’ Union
For more: http://911andmanyunansweredquestions.blogspot.com/2010/07/julia-gillard-is-john-howard-in-drag.htm
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Linda asks…
what are some good ideas to propose in my work place for some “Green” ideas besides recycling, light bulbs ect
I am part of a “green team” at my job. We are looking for different ways to make the work place better for the enviroment. the obvious solutions are recycling bins, energy efficient light bulbs ect. has anyone heard of/proposed or know of some great ideas I can bring up?
The Expert answers:
The Green Life’s list of 10 Ways to Go Green at Work:
http://sierraclub.typepad.com/greenlife/2007/03/10_ways_to_go_g.html
I think it was very useful.. Good Luck!
Jenny asks…
If there were a massive “green jobs” program, wouldn’t most of the jobs go to red states?
Alcohol production, wind power, solar power and vegetable oil—don’t they all come from red states? The only blue state activity might be aluminum can recycling. So why all the talk about urban “green job communities”?
The Expert answers:
No. Obama spends our money on his supporters…like the United Auto Workers. The ‘green jobs’ will go wherever there are Democrats.
William asks…
what kind of small jobs should i do?
im trying to earn money to donate to this project at my church for the poor orphans in india
and i don’t know what kind of small jobs i can do
all i can think of is recycling, babysitting for my aunts, and giving piano lessons to the local kids in my neighborhood…
help plz?
The Expert answers:
Start an errand and odd job service in your neighborhood. Print up flyers and hand them out to your neighbors. If business picks up, hire some of your friends to help you.
Mandy asks…
Does anyone have any info on recycled spray insulation that was featured on Mike Rowe’s Dirtiest Jobs?
I saw an episode about insulation spray technician and they were spraying some sort of recycled material that really reduces sound and insulates walls within a house. Any info would be great.
The Expert answers:
Did not see that one but there is one out that is no voc that is made of soy bean . It’s a very tight holding foam
Joseph asks…
Why do people assume that money is wasted on public sector jobs?
Where do you think that money goes? I mean, teachers are paid but they have to live right? They use that money to buy food, homes, cars, energy, etc. It’s not like once you dump money into a public sector job its automatically wasted. Even spending money on things like buildings, the government needs to pay for labour, materials, etc. and it is all recycled through the private sector! I really don’t understand where people are coming from when they say the government “wastes” this money.
The Expert answers:
The government does waste money because of mismanagement. That doesn’t mean all public-sector jobs are “wastes,” just that for every taxpayer dollar that goes in, less than one dollar of value actually comes out.
You can’t convince a reasonable person that government mismanagement and waste produce a net economic gain because the people who hold public-sector jobs spend money in the economy. The people who paid that tax money would have also spent that money in the economy, except there wouldn’t have been waste in a huge bureaucratic system.
Steven asks…
plastics recycling sales job?
Hi,
I have a friend who started a plastics recycling co a few years ago and seems to be doing well. He’s asking me to join as a salesman.
Is this still a good industry to be involved with?
The Expert answers:
Since he has been in business a few years it sounds like a good opportunity.
The company is established and should have a credible reputation.
The industry as a whole is gaining more of the public’s attention.
People concerned with the environment are opting for rapidly renewable or recycled resources.
Recycled plastic is being sought as a green building material for LEED rated buildings,
Thomas asks…
Overseas contractor jobs for unexperienced 18 year olds?
Im 18 with no real experience. i got hurt in basic training and opted out instead of recycling. Uncle Sam is giving me a run around getting back in and being an assistant manager at a food service place is getting me nowhere in life. so i was looking into contractor jobs overseas.
Is there any companies that hire without experience, including jobs in conflict zones. Security and driving jobs are what interest me but im open to alot. Any suggestions?
The Expert answers:
Garbage Collector…………apply usjobs.org………………
Ken asks…
Questions about recycling?
1.How does recycling save money?
2.How does recycling save our natural resources?
3.How does recycling create jobs?
Thanks guys,
Katie.
The Expert answers:
1. Because recycling is less energy intensive than mining and refining. For example it takes 90% less energy to recycle aluminium cans instead of mining for them again.
2. Because said natural resources will run out at some point, and recycling just turns junk into useful stuff again.
3. It creates jobs and takes away jobs at the same time. You create jobs at recycling plants, collection centers, etc. But you take away jobs from the mining and refining industry (which is kind of a good thing considering how unsafe mining is).
Mark asks…
need to raise money for recycling business in return I will pay for colleg for 5 each year?
trying to raise money for recycling business I have buyer & access to recycleable material and can profit about $10.000.000 to $15.000.000 a year & about ten new job will oper up. try the bank but no help.
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Ken asks…
what are some good ideas to propose in my work place for some “Green” ideas besides recycling, light bulbs ect
I am part of a “green team” at my job. We are looking for different ways to make the work place better for the enviroment. the obvious solutions are recycling bins, energy efficient light bulbs ect. has anyone heard of/proposed or know of some great ideas I can bring up?
The Expert answers:
The Green Life’s list of 10 Ways to Go Green at Work:
http://sierraclub.typepad.com/greenlife/2007/03/10_ways_to_go_g.html
I think it was very useful.. Good Luck!
Thomas asks…
If there were a massive “green jobs” program, wouldn’t most of the jobs go to red states?
Alcohol production, wind power, solar power and vegetable oil—don’t they all come from red states? The only blue state activity might be aluminum can recycling. So why all the talk about urban “green job communities”?
The Expert answers:
No. Obama spends our money on his supporters…like the United Auto Workers. The ‘green jobs’ will go wherever there are Democrats.
Steven asks…
what kind of small jobs should i do?
im trying to earn money to donate to this project at my church for the poor orphans in india
and i don’t know what kind of small jobs i can do
all i can think of is recycling, babysitting for my aunts, and giving piano lessons to the local kids in my neighborhood…
help plz?
The Expert answers:
Start an errand and odd job service in your neighborhood. Print up flyers and hand them out to your neighbors. If business picks up, hire some of your friends to help you.
Michael asks…
Does anyone have any info on recycled spray insulation that was featured on Mike Rowe’s Dirtiest Jobs?
I saw an episode about insulation spray technician and they were spraying some sort of recycled material that really reduces sound and insulates walls within a house. Any info would be great.
The Expert answers:
Did not see that one but there is one out that is no voc that is made of soy bean . It’s a very tight holding foam
Lizzie asks…
Why do people assume that money is wasted on public sector jobs?
Where do you think that money goes? I mean, teachers are paid but they have to live right? They use that money to buy food, homes, cars, energy, etc. It’s not like once you dump money into a public sector job its automatically wasted. Even spending money on things like buildings, the government needs to pay for labour, materials, etc. and it is all recycled through the private sector! I really don’t understand where people are coming from when they say the government “wastes” this money.
The Expert answers:
The government does waste money because of mismanagement. That doesn’t mean all public-sector jobs are “wastes,” just that for every taxpayer dollar that goes in, less than one dollar of value actually comes out.
You can’t convince a reasonable person that government mismanagement and waste produce a net economic gain because the people who hold public-sector jobs spend money in the economy. The people who paid that tax money would have also spent that money in the economy, except there wouldn’t have been waste in a huge bureaucratic system.
Paul asks…
plastics recycling sales job?
Hi,
I have a friend who started a plastics recycling co a few years ago and seems to be doing well. He’s asking me to join as a salesman.
Is this still a good industry to be involved with?
The Expert answers:
Since he has been in business a few years it sounds like a good opportunity.
The company is established and should have a credible reputation.
The industry as a whole is gaining more of the public’s attention.
People concerned with the environment are opting for rapidly renewable or recycled resources.
Recycled plastic is being sought as a green building material for LEED rated buildings,
Chris asks…
Overseas contractor jobs for unexperienced 18 year olds?
Im 18 with no real experience. i got hurt in basic training and opted out instead of recycling. Uncle Sam is giving me a run around getting back in and being an assistant manager at a food service place is getting me nowhere in life. so i was looking into contractor jobs overseas.
Is there any companies that hire without experience, including jobs in conflict zones. Security and driving jobs are what interest me but im open to alot. Any suggestions?
The Expert answers:
Garbage Collector…………apply usjobs.org………………
George asks…
Questions about recycling?
1.How does recycling save money?
2.How does recycling save our natural resources?
3.How does recycling create jobs?
Thanks guys,
Katie.
The Expert answers:
1. Because recycling is less energy intensive than mining and refining. For example it takes 90% less energy to recycle aluminium cans instead of mining for them again.
2. Because said natural resources will run out at some point, and recycling just turns junk into useful stuff again.
3. It creates jobs and takes away jobs at the same time. You create jobs at recycling plants, collection centers, etc. But you take away jobs from the mining and refining industry (which is kind of a good thing considering how unsafe mining is).
Charles asks…
need to raise money for recycling business in return I will pay for colleg for 5 each year?
trying to raise money for recycling business I have buyer & access to recycleable material and can profit about $10.000.000 to $15.000.000 a year & about ten new job will oper up. try the bank but no help.
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So what was the question?
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Donald asks…
what are some good ideas to propose in my work place for some “Green” ideas besides recycling, light bulbs ect
I am part of a “green team” at my job. We are looking for different ways to make the work place better for the enviroment. the obvious solutions are recycling bins, energy efficient light bulbs ect. has anyone heard of/proposed or know of some great ideas I can bring up?
The Expert answers:
The Green Life’s list of 10 Ways to Go Green at Work:
http://sierraclub.typepad.com/greenlife/2007/03/10_ways_to_go_g.html
I think it was very useful.. Good Luck!
Richard asks…
If there were a massive “green jobs” program, wouldn’t most of the jobs go to red states?
Alcohol production, wind power, solar power and vegetable oil—don’t they all come from red states? The only blue state activity might be aluminum can recycling. So why all the talk about urban “green job communities”?
The Expert answers:
No. Obama spends our money on his supporters…like the United Auto Workers. The ‘green jobs’ will go wherever there are Democrats.
Michael asks…
what kind of small jobs should i do?
im trying to earn money to donate to this project at my church for the poor orphans in india
and i don’t know what kind of small jobs i can do
all i can think of is recycling, babysitting for my aunts, and giving piano lessons to the local kids in my neighborhood…
help plz?
The Expert answers:
Start an errand and odd job service in your neighborhood. Print up flyers and hand them out to your neighbors. If business picks up, hire some of your friends to help you.
Jenny asks…
Does anyone have any info on recycled spray insulation that was featured on Mike Rowe’s Dirtiest Jobs?
I saw an episode about insulation spray technician and they were spraying some sort of recycled material that really reduces sound and insulates walls within a house. Any info would be great.
The Expert answers:
Did not see that one but there is one out that is no voc that is made of soy bean . It’s a very tight holding foam
Ken asks…
Why do people assume that money is wasted on public sector jobs?
Where do you think that money goes? I mean, teachers are paid but they have to live right? They use that money to buy food, homes, cars, energy, etc. It’s not like once you dump money into a public sector job its automatically wasted. Even spending money on things like buildings, the government needs to pay for labour, materials, etc. and it is all recycled through the private sector! I really don’t understand where people are coming from when they say the government “wastes” this money.
The Expert answers:
The government does waste money because of mismanagement. That doesn’t mean all public-sector jobs are “wastes,” just that for every taxpayer dollar that goes in, less than one dollar of value actually comes out.
You can’t convince a reasonable person that government mismanagement and waste produce a net economic gain because the people who hold public-sector jobs spend money in the economy. The people who paid that tax money would have also spent that money in the economy, except there wouldn’t have been waste in a huge bureaucratic system.
Mandy asks…
plastics recycling sales job?
Hi,
I have a friend who started a plastics recycling co a few years ago and seems to be doing well. He’s asking me to join as a salesman.
Is this still a good industry to be involved with?
The Expert answers:
Since he has been in business a few years it sounds like a good opportunity.
The company is established and should have a credible reputation.
The industry as a whole is gaining more of the public’s attention.
People concerned with the environment are opting for rapidly renewable or recycled resources.
Recycled plastic is being sought as a green building material for LEED rated buildings,
Laura asks…
Overseas contractor jobs for unexperienced 18 year olds?
Im 18 with no real experience. i got hurt in basic training and opted out instead of recycling. Uncle Sam is giving me a run around getting back in and being an assistant manager at a food service place is getting me nowhere in life. so i was looking into contractor jobs overseas.
Is there any companies that hire without experience, including jobs in conflict zones. Security and driving jobs are what interest me but im open to alot. Any suggestions?
The Expert answers:
Garbage Collector…………apply usjobs.org………………
James asks…
Questions about recycling?
1.How does recycling save money?
2.How does recycling save our natural resources?
3.How does recycling create jobs?
Thanks guys,
Katie.
The Expert answers:
1. Because recycling is less energy intensive than mining and refining. For example it takes 90% less energy to recycle aluminium cans instead of mining for them again.
2. Because said natural resources will run out at some point, and recycling just turns junk into useful stuff again.
3. It creates jobs and takes away jobs at the same time. You create jobs at recycling plants, collection centers, etc. But you take away jobs from the mining and refining industry (which is kind of a good thing considering how unsafe mining is).
Susan asks…
need to raise money for recycling business in return I will pay for colleg for 5 each year?
trying to raise money for recycling business I have buyer & access to recycleable material and can profit about $10.000.000 to $15.000.000 a year & about ten new job will oper up. try the bank but no help.
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Donna asks…
Pet store tale, true or not?
I came across this on an internet forum where people were revealing the ‘nasty unknowns’ of jobs they have had in the past.
“Pet shops only sell 2/3 of their puppies before they get too old, become less desireable and therefore less profitable. So, every quarter when The Puppy Truck arrives with new replacement pups, the older ones are loaded on the truck and returned to the breeders to be “recycled” into feed for something else. If it was widely known that all pet shops who sell puppies participated in this you can imagine the results. Therefore The Puppy Truck is designed to hide what it is. It’s a clean white unmarked semi on the outside but stainless steel wall to wall and floor to ceiling inside with small cages along the walls. No lights inside. The sound of three dozen barking, yowling, crying 8 week old pups in that metal box is beyond description. The drivers arrive at the stores after hours to do the swap. They have keys. No employees are -ever- told when they will come due to the fact they love animals and would likely quit en masse if they knew what was taking place. In fact as a rule they are not told about any of this. They order new pups from a breeders FAX sheet and the pups come and go without warning. Only the owner/manager knows and they don’t talk. ”
Do you buy it?
(P.S. Yahoo suggested I put this in Pets>Fish)
” You would also have to be a WEIRD FREAK to wanna kill animals on purpose” we do kill animals for meat. When we have livestock that is unfit to use for human food (like they are too old to be good meat) we grind them up and use them as protein additives in animal feed.
If someone is so heartless to run a puppymill keeping an adult mother in a small pen constantly churning out fresh puppies to sell, do you really think they’d balk at ‘disposing’ of puppies too old to be sold?
Do you think every puppy in a pet-store is eventually sold? Do you think the puppy store brings their too old puppies to the humane society animal shelters?
There are many products like magazines and newspapers and many fresh vegetables, where they only sell 2/3rds and the rest pass their ‘freshness date’. The companies price the items so the 2/3rds that are sold pay for the 1/3 that expires. Do you think that doesn’t happen for puppies?
The Expert answers:
If it’s true it’s just plain sick. All puppies are beautiful, even when fully grown. It just sends out a horrible message that pet-shops care only about making money, not the animals they sell. How old is too old? Is what I’m left wondering… I hope that isn’t true. Gosh the $hit people do for money, why can’t we all be decent human beings, just for a little while?
I’d like to think every puppy in a pet store is eventually sold ( 82 misspellings? )
Interesting point you make about livestock there…
Sick people these days…
Ken asks…
Parents who can’t control their anger?
I feel like my parents can’t control their anger.
All my life, when my older siblings were children, and since he knew my mother, my dad has been angry and known to have fits of rage. I remember him throwing a chair when I was about three. And he screams, punches walls, breaks things, and generally scares me. Because of that I don’t really like him and have little of a relationship with him. Now that I’m 16 I appericate him for taking care of my family and all that and he’s not as scary anymore.
He gets mad at small things and blows up on them, and when him and my mom are drinking they fight which is what usually leads to him get mad, goes somewhere in the house alone, my mom bothers him, he starts screaming, busting a wall or something, and my mom crying. They’ve been close to getting a divorce.
My mom on the other hand always has to talk loud. Like she gets annoyed with my dad or is proven wrong and she starts almost yelling. In general she talks loud to us when she’s trying to control us and tell us what to do. She gets annoyed with small things. She just emptied the garbage and was outside, than she comes in slamming things, and starts yelling at me how it’s pretty much my fault there are rats in the garage because of the recycling bins we have, and I enforce recyciling, and she starts going on about how I’m sooo lazy despite the fact I take care of the dogs, clean the kitchen, and help her with things more than my brother or father do. My brother doesn’t do anything to help the house out, has no job, my mom use to use the excuse of him having a job so he wouldn’t have to mow the lawn or even put his dishes in the dishwasher.
Like she was fine before she took the garbage out than she comes inside three minutes later yelling at me and having a fit.
I don’t get mad about it anymore. I use to but I don’t want to end up like them so I’ve been working on being less mad and annoyed. I just say things like “Really, you’re going to scream about the garbage” and ask her why she’s yelling at me over something stupid.
I feel like my parents lack communication skills and how to handle things. Like they’re over 40 years old and they always get super annoyed over the stupidest things.
Is there anything I can do? Or any advice or any input on dealing with my parents?
The Expert answers:
My dad is a bit like that…gets overly mad over little things…he like almost explodes, starts swearing at my mom my sister and me and starts doing what hes doing roughly. My whole life i have thought of a way to help him or do somethibg about it and seriously i doubt theres anything you can do..well actually if u think you can convince them of going to some kind of Psycologist that would probably help but reading how ur parents are it might be hard…this is all i have come up with…hope you can find a way to deal with them…the other option is to keep ignoring them like you have until ur older..luck!!!
Michael asks…
What the hell am I supposed to have on a resume?
I have NEVER had a job in my life. I’m 17.
How am I supposed to create a resume? I have nothing to put on it.
I’ve volunteered with a friend at a music venue a couple of times working at the concession stands and cleaning the bathrooms. But that was only like 5 times and it was probably almost 4 years ago. I’ve also volunteered at a library working on the computer doing posting for the libraries blog, but that was so boring, that was only about 2 weeks and I decided to stop going cause I hated it, I was only doing it because I had to get community service hours.
I was in an advanced after school drama class, I have no interest in acting, but I was only there to do the stage design cause It seemed fun, that lasted about 2 weeks but then they cancelled it.
I was also into the green group (focuses on recycling, environment, etc.), I went to one of the meetings, but then I just started not caring.
I also went out one time with some ppl during school to go out and pick up trash around the area.
If I put those things on my resume, (leaving the fact that I just stopped volunteering at the library) would they contact those places?
I go to the gym everyday, I do my online high school classes, I love animals, I’m fluent in spanish, I like being around people of different ethnicities, I enjoy pretty looking things, I like helping around the house. Are those things that would matter?
The Expert answers:
Most places where you apply for work at 17 don’t require a resume. They usually ask you to fill out a job application form that they provide.
You do want to have references to put on the job application form, though. You want to notify your references before you put their names and contact information on anything. That is your real need, references. Let’s see where you might drum some up.
Do you have teachers for your online high school classes? Have your work habits impressed any of your teachers enough that they would recommend you as a good employee?
Is there anyone at the gym who could recommend you based on your daily attendance, as someone who is committed, maybe?
Lisa asks…
Am I a conservative ……….. ?
I don’t relate with many conservatives of today and I call myself an Independant Constitutionalist. But after reading a little from conservatism long ago,I seem to relate more with those older cons ESPecialy compared to those of today. Here’s how I feel. I would like to reduce some of the jobs of the government. I beleive that federal authority should override state authority much less than they do. I also want to make it a point to add that history show us that bad things happen when certain groups are given either to much or to unique power. I think Gov should crack down on corporations over certain things to keep down greedy manipulation of the masses. I wont detail all that but other than that and the few examples i will give,i tjink that the people,their state and fre enterpriZe should do the rest.I think we need them for certain things like police,security,border control,military. Given the fact that I also think that those example ls of government power should be less in some and more in other areas. For instance,I think our military presence in the world should be reevaluated. To save money and to recycle some of those forces toward our US Mexican border.
The Expert answers:
Those are all conservative values. The problem with today’s conservative is they have bent for liberal insanity.
Jenny asks…
How would you ask, implore, people to please?
please stop being so harsh in their judgments, their treatment of you. To please consider that I am 63 years old, I have been through hades. I deserve kindness, good treatment. I deserve to be treated well, not be treated so
harshly. I beg them to let me get out of my apartment and go shopping without getting into my auto. They are killing me by making me stay in.
I beg them to tell me how I am offending them. I am not driving a gas guzzler. As little as I drive my car, I hurt nothing. besides that, I recycle and am thrifty.
I am poor. I do not have the money to give to charity without doing without.
I have no really close friends here, just some acquaintances. I am not putting those few down. I am grateful for small favors. I cannot buy protection money from a church. I cannot afford to tithe. Right now, I am too ill and in too much pain to go to church. i am not able to work. I am scared to death regarding my health, with good reason. I do not want to die. Please please stop harassing me. Stay out of my apartment. Don’t make personal references vaguely.
Be yourself. I came here to never see those people back there again, and hopefully no one who reminded me of them. Please treat me
decently.
I have very few belongings. Most of them were not obtained in the town where I lived before coming here. I am keeping my auto. I bought it when I was
a licensed Professional Capable Competent REgistered Nurse who was
qualified, able and competent to do her job, and did it well. I am sick of the
perfectionists who fall way short. I am sick to death of the self righteous
holier than thou double standards and the straining at a gnat and swallowing a camel.
Where I came from, I was a prisoner., not for real, not deserved. I had committed no crime. Told all I was gay so no man would have any interest in me. I was told where to shop, where to work, where to sit in church, what I could wear, how to wear my hair, what shift to work, etc., etc. I moved. I went where I wanted when I wanted. Of course, I cannot dress the way I want to. I must wear clothes that fit, and I cannot afford new clothes. I cannot. I cannot afford to get my hair done. I will go or not go to church as I please. I am not a church member and have total rejection, for the denomination of which I was previously a member. I will not harm them.
My auto is mine, they did not give me anything, never. I am not, and was not a prostitute. I retain my belief in God and Jesus, but I am not a church member, local or invisible or universal.
took pride in being an RN. I was a good nurse, regardless. You cannot
tell me I was not. I know better I earned my license by hard work and study,
I did not cheat. Stop running me down. Stop attacking my achievements and accomplishments. You know absolutely nothing at all, regardless. State your facts, your source. You don’t know the difference between a medical diagnosis and a nursing diagnosis or what a nursing intervention is. You have no right to stalk, harass, judge or criticize me for that to me unless I can
have a chance to do the same to you.
My children: They were not perfect. No one said they were. Were you treated the way we were. Did you have the abuse, the harassment, the discrimination. Did your Mom get attacked twice due to working?
Did they try to murder your children’s mother for no reason. Could there be a good reason? Did they attack your children’s mother twice? Do they want to be like their mother? Did I do anything to cause these things. No. No more than a rape victim asks to be raped. I did not deserve the diseases you probably gave me here on purpose. I have been treated like a second
class citizen. I have. Don’t say I have not. Yes. I have an apartment.
I have not destroyed it. I have not lied about anything. I lived where I lived outside here, where the cost of living was far less, but wages far far lower
for about twelve years. For about 7 or eight years of that, I lived in a horrible shack which was not fit to live in without running water a lot of the time, wood heat for a good while, no ac or ac that hardly worked at all, no flushing toilett in the winter. I carried water from the spring for a good while. I scrimped and scrimped and scrimped to save money on very little pay and put down payments on my auto and car. I vow that all the money I put down on my auto and home were from cash earnings and not credit card money. I saved at the expense of my teeth, legs, lungs, heart, guts , nervous system. No one had compassion for me. I paid two student loan payments a month, they were not federal. I payed probably thousands of interest on that. I went to a real college, earned a real nursing degree, had a real license and was harassed out of it.
I had to let it go.
Please don’t harass me to death. Please let me live in peace. I am taking no money from your pocket, no job from you. Quite the opposite. I owe no
attorneys here. I
The Expert answers:
Your question just went out of my head after the last word i read.
Maria asks…
my parents don’t buy me anything?
now, i don’t ask for much – in fact i only need the necessities but even i can’t have those. i need a coat due to cold weather (plus my old coat is 3 years old and worn out – with most of the buttons lost) and when i asked (because there are sales at this time) they said no – yet my mum is going out to buy herself a jumper even though she has way too many clothes/makeup/hair stuff. see, my mom puts her self first because she views it as ‘her money’ even though she has to support me and my siblings and my dad is plain cheap – he will say no to everything just to save money, which i can kinda understand.
my younger brother saves up any money he can get (including lunch) just so he can buy stuff he needs otherwise he won’t get anything – and sometimes my mom even borrows from him. i know my parents are broke at this time, but i help by recycling my stuff and making the most but i feel like i’m treated as if it’s my fault for existing, how my mom always makes me feel guilty for everything – even birthday gifts, when she knows i appreciate them. and last birthday i didn’t even get anything because i didn’t want to be rude.
now before you ask me to get a job, i’ve handed in CVs with no luck so far so i’m going to call them in a couple days and try again so that i can provide for myself.
do you think this is a normal parent and child dynamic? our household is extremely dysfunctional because of my parents and me and my brother have to deal with this all the time.
The Expert answers:
I think your dad is trying to be responsible, maybe not your mom. Some parents put themselves first because it’s their money. I don’t think that that’s right, but it is how it is.
Keep trying to get a job. Once you’re independant, you will feel a lot better. You’ll actually have money for what you want, and it will be your money, and you don’t have to give it to your parents to borrow, etc. Maybe give some to your little brother so he can eat his lunch.
Good luck! And remember – school first. A job is great but school has to be your priority.
Susan asks…
What would you do when blamed for things that are not your fault at work?
I work at a Chamber of Commerce. There are only two people who work here (my boss and I) and there is a Board of Directors. I take care of all the marketing, including post cards, emails, website and brochures. I made a mistake on a postcard I created for a member of our Board of Directors. I wrote the time for a seminar as PM instead of AM. This was a major mistake because the postcards went out in the mail. I could have sworn that my boss told me to write this, but could didn’t have proof so took the blame. Then I found a note in my recycling bin explaining what to write on the postcard and it said PM (with my bosses handwriting). I have to deal with this person on our BOD a great deal. She talks to me like I am a complete moron. This is compounded by the fact that I made an spelling error once before on a postcard (last year). Now I am making a different postcard for her and she claims she sent me all the information for it. I know she did not because I save all my emails and don’t have it. She thinks I did get it and this is again my error (as if I am prone to mistakes). Should I just let it go? At this point is seems a little silly to throw my boss under the bus, but dealing with a person who talks to me like I am dumb is annoying. I am planning on getting a new job soon anyways.
PS. My rant was a little confusing. It is not my boss that talks to me like I am stupid. It is another woman on our Board of Directors I often have to to marketing brochures for her. I take responsiblity for the spelling error last year. Unfortunately now that she thinks I made another error, she thinks I constantly make mistakes (which I don’t).
PS. My rant was a little confusing. It is not my boss that talks to me like I am stupid. It is another woman on our Board of Directors I often have to to marketing brochures for her. I take responsiblity for the spelling error last year. Unfortunately now that she thinks I made another error, she thinks I constantly make mistakes (which I don’t).
The Expert answers:
Honestly, I’d show my boss the “proof” that the information given to me was from them. “Hey, I found the post-it you sent me. You did write PM. Guess next time I should check with you, right?” I wouldn’t continue to allow someone to blame me for something that wasn’t my fault. Of course I’d be as nice as possible when bringing it up but I’d certainly bring it up. The email thing I’d let go since it’s been longer, but I’d definitely bring things up right away like the post-it. Then Of course I’d find another job since it’s just not working out anyway. The whole reason I’d bring up the post-it though is not to prove that I’m right but to be assertive. Don’t let people treat you like a door-mat. Insist they treat you better–and showing them it was their info- is a way to do that.
Robert asks…
Night Watchman?
A man got a job as a night watchman at a factory. There had been a lot of thefts by the workers on the night shift, and so every morning when the night shift workers passed through his gate it was his job to check their bags and pockets to make sure that nothing was being stolen.
Things were going along very well the first night on the job until a man pushing a wheelbarrow of newspapers came through the gate. Aha, he thought, that man thinks he can cover up what he is stealing with that newspaper. So he removed the paper only to find nothing. Still he felt that the man was acting strangley, so he questioned him about the paper.
“I get a little extra money from newspapers I recycle, so I go into the lunchroom and pick up all the ones people have thrown away.” The guard let him pass, but decided to keep a close eye on him. The next night it was the same, and the night after that. Week after week it went on. The same guy would push the wheelbarrow of newspapers past the guard’s checkpoint. The guard would always check and find nothing.
Then one night, about a year later, the guard reported for work only to find a message had been left for him telling him to report to the supervisor. He walked into the supervisor’s office and before he could say a word, the boss said, “You’re fired!”
“Fired?” he asked in total surprise. “Why? What did I do?”
“It was your job to make sure that no one stole anything from this plant and you have failed. So you’re fired.”
“Wait a minute, what do you mean failed. Nobody ever stole anything from this place while I was on guard.”
“Oh, really,” the boss answered. “Then how do you count for the fact that there are 365 wheelbarrows missing?”
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Laura asks…
Do You Think Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag?
Do You Think Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag?
Further to Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag may I ask Who wants to see Gillard as pro-Israel and anti-Islam?
A regular reader of this site sent this on, exact source unknown, but certainly speaks for itself.
The ALP and Israel is like a disease that no medicine can cure
Australian unionist Paul Howes loves Israel. He supports its criminality, murder of opponents, defends it from everybody and would ideally like to make love to the Jewish state. He’s also one of the key figures behind the recent coup of Julia Gillard when overthrowing Kevin Rudd.
Welcome to the modern Australian Labor Party, where Israel is a state religion.
His column in yesterday’s Sunday Telegraph is a typical rant that conveniently forgets to mention that one of Australia’s leading Zionist lobbyists, Albert Dadon, is actually an Israeli lobbyist. He wields influence but of course we can’t mention this. Furthermore, Howes doesn’t want to see that there is a profound conflict of influence with the Prime Minister’s partner working for a Zionist lobbyist who is trying to affect government policy towards the Middle East. But of course for some, anything related to the Jewish state is beyond criticism. Fat chance:
It hasn’t taken long for the double standards to emerge, in the week since our first female Prime Minister took office.
While it’s significant that Julia Gillard is our first female PM, what’s really significant is how long it took us to get there.
I’m writing this column in the Sydney CBD, where we have a female Lord Mayor and State member, and female federal MP, a female Premier and a female Governor.
In Canberra, there’s a female Governor General and – at last – a female PM. With the exception of the dual-Lord Mayor/Member for Bligh, all these women are, or were appointed by, Labor.
The Liberal Party, on the other hand, is so bereft of female talent that they’ve recycled Julie Bishop as deputy leader three times for different leaders, despite the fact that she’s not considered competent enough to hold the shadow Treasury portfolio.
But the progressive side of politics has always championed women. In my own role as a union official, we have had female leaders of the Australian Council of Trade Unions since 1996, with the newest president, Ged Kearney, taking office in the past week.
She replaces Sharan Burrow, who has been elected as the head of the global trade union movement.
Yet we’ve already seen double standards being applied to our new PM with significant media coverage of Prime Minister Gillard’s hair, clothes, voice and domestic arrangements.
The Melbourne Age carried a front-page story last week about the employment status of the Prime Minister’s partner, Tim Mathieson.
He works as a salesman for a Melbourne property company, chaired by Albert Dadon, prominent in the local Jewish community.
The article implied that, somehow, because Mr Mathieson works for a company associated with a Jewish community member, this would somehow impact on the PM’s stance on foreign policy, particularly in relation to her views on Israel.
It was one of the crassest examples of shoddy journalism I’ve seen. The implication was, firstly, that because Mr Mathieson is a man and the PM a woman, whatever he thinks about the world or who he works for will impact on what Ms Gillard thinks.
The second implication was that, simply because Mr Mathieson works for a company owned by a prominent Jew, his personal views on policy matters will be skewed by his job.
One Canberra press gallery journalist summed it up best on Twitter when he said: “I can’t ever recall a male politician being the subject of claims his wife’s job would influence his views on the Middle East.”
He was spot on, summing up in one sentence the appalling double standards applied to Prime Minister Gillard in the article. In fact, outrage over the article was so intense that even former Age editor Michael Gawenda labelled it “bizarre”.
Mr Mathieson’s employer, apart from being Jewish, is a well-known jazz musician and was chairman of the Melbourne Jazz Festival.
Following the logic of The Age’s article, one could presume that our nation’s leader will redirect the Government’s arts funding solely towards the Australian jazz industry.
Ludicrous, isn’t it? Just as ludicrous as saying that the PM is going to toe some pro-Israel line simply because of who her partner works for. It’s the type of double standards and sexist reporting that belongs in the past.
Julia Gillard has shown she is her own person. It doesn’t matter what her hair looks like. I don’t think anyone is really interested in how she dresses. It doesn’t matter who her partner works for or what their living arrangements are.
What matters is that she’s the best pe
What matters is that she’s the best person for the job and light years ahead of Tony Abbott when it comes to understanding the needs of ordinary Australians. Yes, she’s different from her predecessors, but just like Kevin Rudd, John Howard, Paul Keating and Bob Hawke, she is her own person.
Any suggestion that her partner’s views, or her hairstyle, has any bearing on how she runs the country is laughable at best, sexist at worst.
Paul Howes is national secretary of the Australian Workers’ Union
For more: http://911andmanyunansweredquestions.blogspot.com/2010/07/julia-gillard-is-john-howard-in-drag.htm
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Nancy asks…
Pet store tale, true or not?
I came across this on an internet forum where people were revealing the ‘nasty unknowns’ of jobs they have had in the past.
“Pet shops only sell 2/3 of their puppies before they get too old, become less desireable and therefore less profitable. So, every quarter when The Puppy Truck arrives with new replacement pups, the older ones are loaded on the truck and returned to the breeders to be “recycled” into feed for something else. If it was widely known that all pet shops who sell puppies participated in this you can imagine the results. Therefore The Puppy Truck is designed to hide what it is. It’s a clean white unmarked semi on the outside but stainless steel wall to wall and floor to ceiling inside with small cages along the walls. No lights inside. The sound of three dozen barking, yowling, crying 8 week old pups in that metal box is beyond description. The drivers arrive at the stores after hours to do the swap. They have keys. No employees are -ever- told when they will come due to the fact they love animals and would likely quit en masse if they knew what was taking place. In fact as a rule they are not told about any of this. They order new pups from a breeders FAX sheet and the pups come and go without warning. Only the owner/manager knows and they don’t talk. ”
Do you buy it?
(P.S. Yahoo suggested I put this in Pets>Fish)
” You would also have to be a WEIRD FREAK to wanna kill animals on purpose” we do kill animals for meat. When we have livestock that is unfit to use for human food (like they are too old to be good meat) we grind them up and use them as protein additives in animal feed.
If someone is so heartless to run a puppymill keeping an adult mother in a small pen constantly churning out fresh puppies to sell, do you really think they’d balk at ‘disposing’ of puppies too old to be sold?
Do you think every puppy in a pet-store is eventually sold? Do you think the puppy store brings their too old puppies to the humane society animal shelters?
There are many products like magazines and newspapers and many fresh vegetables, where they only sell 2/3rds and the rest pass their ‘freshness date’. The companies price the items so the 2/3rds that are sold pay for the 1/3 that expires. Do you think that doesn’t happen for puppies?
The Expert answers:
If it’s true it’s just plain sick. All puppies are beautiful, even when fully grown. It just sends out a horrible message that pet-shops care only about making money, not the animals they sell. How old is too old? Is what I’m left wondering… I hope that isn’t true. Gosh the $hit people do for money, why can’t we all be decent human beings, just for a little while?
I’d like to think every puppy in a pet store is eventually sold ( 82 misspellings? )
Interesting point you make about livestock there…
Sick people these days…
Donna asks…
Parents who can’t control their anger?
I feel like my parents can’t control their anger.
All my life, when my older siblings were children, and since he knew my mother, my dad has been angry and known to have fits of rage. I remember him throwing a chair when I was about three. And he screams, punches walls, breaks things, and generally scares me. Because of that I don’t really like him and have little of a relationship with him. Now that I’m 16 I appericate him for taking care of my family and all that and he’s not as scary anymore.
He gets mad at small things and blows up on them, and when him and my mom are drinking they fight which is what usually leads to him get mad, goes somewhere in the house alone, my mom bothers him, he starts screaming, busting a wall or something, and my mom crying. They’ve been close to getting a divorce.
My mom on the other hand always has to talk loud. Like she gets annoyed with my dad or is proven wrong and she starts almost yelling. In general she talks loud to us when she’s trying to control us and tell us what to do. She gets annoyed with small things. She just emptied the garbage and was outside, than she comes in slamming things, and starts yelling at me how it’s pretty much my fault there are rats in the garage because of the recycling bins we have, and I enforce recyciling, and she starts going on about how I’m sooo lazy despite the fact I take care of the dogs, clean the kitchen, and help her with things more than my brother or father do. My brother doesn’t do anything to help the house out, has no job, my mom use to use the excuse of him having a job so he wouldn’t have to mow the lawn or even put his dishes in the dishwasher.
Like she was fine before she took the garbage out than she comes inside three minutes later yelling at me and having a fit.
I don’t get mad about it anymore. I use to but I don’t want to end up like them so I’ve been working on being less mad and annoyed. I just say things like “Really, you’re going to scream about the garbage” and ask her why she’s yelling at me over something stupid.
I feel like my parents lack communication skills and how to handle things. Like they’re over 40 years old and they always get super annoyed over the stupidest things.
Is there anything I can do? Or any advice or any input on dealing with my parents?
The Expert answers:
My dad is a bit like that…gets overly mad over little things…he like almost explodes, starts swearing at my mom my sister and me and starts doing what hes doing roughly. My whole life i have thought of a way to help him or do somethibg about it and seriously i doubt theres anything you can do..well actually if u think you can convince them of going to some kind of Psycologist that would probably help but reading how ur parents are it might be hard…this is all i have come up with…hope you can find a way to deal with them…the other option is to keep ignoring them like you have until ur older..luck!!!
David asks…
What the hell am I supposed to have on a resume?
I have NEVER had a job in my life. I’m 17.
How am I supposed to create a resume? I have nothing to put on it.
I’ve volunteered with a friend at a music venue a couple of times working at the concession stands and cleaning the bathrooms. But that was only like 5 times and it was probably almost 4 years ago. I’ve also volunteered at a library working on the computer doing posting for the libraries blog, but that was so boring, that was only about 2 weeks and I decided to stop going cause I hated it, I was only doing it because I had to get community service hours.
I was in an advanced after school drama class, I have no interest in acting, but I was only there to do the stage design cause It seemed fun, that lasted about 2 weeks but then they cancelled it.
I was also into the green group (focuses on recycling, environment, etc.), I went to one of the meetings, but then I just started not caring.
I also went out one time with some ppl during school to go out and pick up trash around the area.
If I put those things on my resume, (leaving the fact that I just stopped volunteering at the library) would they contact those places?
I go to the gym everyday, I do my online high school classes, I love animals, I’m fluent in spanish, I like being around people of different ethnicities, I enjoy pretty looking things, I like helping around the house. Are those things that would matter?
The Expert answers:
Most places where you apply for work at 17 don’t require a resume. They usually ask you to fill out a job application form that they provide.
You do want to have references to put on the job application form, though. You want to notify your references before you put their names and contact information on anything. That is your real need, references. Let’s see where you might drum some up.
Do you have teachers for your online high school classes? Have your work habits impressed any of your teachers enough that they would recommend you as a good employee?
Is there anyone at the gym who could recommend you based on your daily attendance, as someone who is committed, maybe?
Daniel asks…
Am I a conservative ……….. ?
I don’t relate with many conservatives of today and I call myself an Independant Constitutionalist. But after reading a little from conservatism long ago,I seem to relate more with those older cons ESPecialy compared to those of today. Here’s how I feel. I would like to reduce some of the jobs of the government. I beleive that federal authority should override state authority much less than they do. I also want to make it a point to add that history show us that bad things happen when certain groups are given either to much or to unique power. I think Gov should crack down on corporations over certain things to keep down greedy manipulation of the masses. I wont detail all that but other than that and the few examples i will give,i tjink that the people,their state and fre enterpriZe should do the rest.I think we need them for certain things like police,security,border control,military. Given the fact that I also think that those example ls of government power should be less in some and more in other areas. For instance,I think our military presence in the world should be reevaluated. To save money and to recycle some of those forces toward our US Mexican border.
The Expert answers:
Those are all conservative values. The problem with today’s conservative is they have bent for liberal insanity.
Lizzie asks…
How would you ask, implore, people to please?
please stop being so harsh in their judgments, their treatment of you. To please consider that I am 63 years old, I have been through hades. I deserve kindness, good treatment. I deserve to be treated well, not be treated so
harshly. I beg them to let me get out of my apartment and go shopping without getting into my auto. They are killing me by making me stay in.
I beg them to tell me how I am offending them. I am not driving a gas guzzler. As little as I drive my car, I hurt nothing. besides that, I recycle and am thrifty.
I am poor. I do not have the money to give to charity without doing without.
I have no really close friends here, just some acquaintances. I am not putting those few down. I am grateful for small favors. I cannot buy protection money from a church. I cannot afford to tithe. Right now, I am too ill and in too much pain to go to church. i am not able to work. I am scared to death regarding my health, with good reason. I do not want to die. Please please stop harassing me. Stay out of my apartment. Don’t make personal references vaguely.
Be yourself. I came here to never see those people back there again, and hopefully no one who reminded me of them. Please treat me
decently.
I have very few belongings. Most of them were not obtained in the town where I lived before coming here. I am keeping my auto. I bought it when I was
a licensed Professional Capable Competent REgistered Nurse who was
qualified, able and competent to do her job, and did it well. I am sick of the
perfectionists who fall way short. I am sick to death of the self righteous
holier than thou double standards and the straining at a gnat and swallowing a camel.
Where I came from, I was a prisoner., not for real, not deserved. I had committed no crime. Told all I was gay so no man would have any interest in me. I was told where to shop, where to work, where to sit in church, what I could wear, how to wear my hair, what shift to work, etc., etc. I moved. I went where I wanted when I wanted. Of course, I cannot dress the way I want to. I must wear clothes that fit, and I cannot afford new clothes. I cannot. I cannot afford to get my hair done. I will go or not go to church as I please. I am not a church member and have total rejection, for the denomination of which I was previously a member. I will not harm them.
My auto is mine, they did not give me anything, never. I am not, and was not a prostitute. I retain my belief in God and Jesus, but I am not a church member, local or invisible or universal.
took pride in being an RN. I was a good nurse, regardless. You cannot
tell me I was not. I know better I earned my license by hard work and study,
I did not cheat. Stop running me down. Stop attacking my achievements and accomplishments. You know absolutely nothing at all, regardless. State your facts, your source. You don’t know the difference between a medical diagnosis and a nursing diagnosis or what a nursing intervention is. You have no right to stalk, harass, judge or criticize me for that to me unless I can
have a chance to do the same to you.
My children: They were not perfect. No one said they were. Were you treated the way we were. Did you have the abuse, the harassment, the discrimination. Did your Mom get attacked twice due to working?
Did they try to murder your children’s mother for no reason. Could there be a good reason? Did they attack your children’s mother twice? Do they want to be like their mother? Did I do anything to cause these things. No. No more than a rape victim asks to be raped. I did not deserve the diseases you probably gave me here on purpose. I have been treated like a second
class citizen. I have. Don’t say I have not. Yes. I have an apartment.
I have not destroyed it. I have not lied about anything. I lived where I lived outside here, where the cost of living was far less, but wages far far lower
for about twelve years. For about 7 or eight years of that, I lived in a horrible shack which was not fit to live in without running water a lot of the time, wood heat for a good while, no ac or ac that hardly worked at all, no flushing toilett in the winter. I carried water from the spring for a good while. I scrimped and scrimped and scrimped to save money on very little pay and put down payments on my auto and car. I vow that all the money I put down on my auto and home were from cash earnings and not credit card money. I saved at the expense of my teeth, legs, lungs, heart, guts , nervous system. No one had compassion for me. I paid two student loan payments a month, they were not federal. I payed probably thousands of interest on that. I went to a real college, earned a real nursing degree, had a real license and was harassed out of it.
I had to let it go.
Please don’t harass me to death. Please let me live in peace. I am taking no money from your pocket, no job from you. Quite the opposite. I owe no
attorneys here. I
The Expert answers:
Your question just went out of my head after the last word i read.
Carol asks…
my parents don’t buy me anything?
now, i don’t ask for much – in fact i only need the necessities but even i can’t have those. i need a coat due to cold weather (plus my old coat is 3 years old and worn out – with most of the buttons lost) and when i asked (because there are sales at this time) they said no – yet my mum is going out to buy herself a jumper even though she has way too many clothes/makeup/hair stuff. see, my mom puts her self first because she views it as ‘her money’ even though she has to support me and my siblings and my dad is plain cheap – he will say no to everything just to save money, which i can kinda understand.
my younger brother saves up any money he can get (including lunch) just so he can buy stuff he needs otherwise he won’t get anything – and sometimes my mom even borrows from him. i know my parents are broke at this time, but i help by recycling my stuff and making the most but i feel like i’m treated as if it’s my fault for existing, how my mom always makes me feel guilty for everything – even birthday gifts, when she knows i appreciate them. and last birthday i didn’t even get anything because i didn’t want to be rude.
now before you ask me to get a job, i’ve handed in CVs with no luck so far so i’m going to call them in a couple days and try again so that i can provide for myself.
do you think this is a normal parent and child dynamic? our household is extremely dysfunctional because of my parents and me and my brother have to deal with this all the time.
The Expert answers:
I think your dad is trying to be responsible, maybe not your mom. Some parents put themselves first because it’s their money. I don’t think that that’s right, but it is how it is.
Keep trying to get a job. Once you’re independant, you will feel a lot better. You’ll actually have money for what you want, and it will be your money, and you don’t have to give it to your parents to borrow, etc. Maybe give some to your little brother so he can eat his lunch.
Good luck! And remember – school first. A job is great but school has to be your priority.
Michael asks…
What would you do when blamed for things that are not your fault at work?
I work at a Chamber of Commerce. There are only two people who work here (my boss and I) and there is a Board of Directors. I take care of all the marketing, including post cards, emails, website and brochures. I made a mistake on a postcard I created for a member of our Board of Directors. I wrote the time for a seminar as PM instead of AM. This was a major mistake because the postcards went out in the mail. I could have sworn that my boss told me to write this, but could didn’t have proof so took the blame. Then I found a note in my recycling bin explaining what to write on the postcard and it said PM (with my bosses handwriting). I have to deal with this person on our BOD a great deal. She talks to me like I am a complete moron. This is compounded by the fact that I made an spelling error once before on a postcard (last year). Now I am making a different postcard for her and she claims she sent me all the information for it. I know she did not because I save all my emails and don’t have it. She thinks I did get it and this is again my error (as if I am prone to mistakes). Should I just let it go? At this point is seems a little silly to throw my boss under the bus, but dealing with a person who talks to me like I am dumb is annoying. I am planning on getting a new job soon anyways.
PS. My rant was a little confusing. It is not my boss that talks to me like I am stupid. It is another woman on our Board of Directors I often have to to marketing brochures for her. I take responsiblity for the spelling error last year. Unfortunately now that she thinks I made another error, she thinks I constantly make mistakes (which I don’t).
PS. My rant was a little confusing. It is not my boss that talks to me like I am stupid. It is another woman on our Board of Directors I often have to to marketing brochures for her. I take responsiblity for the spelling error last year. Unfortunately now that she thinks I made another error, she thinks I constantly make mistakes (which I don’t).
The Expert answers:
Honestly, I’d show my boss the “proof” that the information given to me was from them. “Hey, I found the post-it you sent me. You did write PM. Guess next time I should check with you, right?” I wouldn’t continue to allow someone to blame me for something that wasn’t my fault. Of course I’d be as nice as possible when bringing it up but I’d certainly bring it up. The email thing I’d let go since it’s been longer, but I’d definitely bring things up right away like the post-it. Then Of course I’d find another job since it’s just not working out anyway. The whole reason I’d bring up the post-it though is not to prove that I’m right but to be assertive. Don’t let people treat you like a door-mat. Insist they treat you better–and showing them it was their info- is a way to do that.
Donald asks…
Night Watchman?
A man got a job as a night watchman at a factory. There had been a lot of thefts by the workers on the night shift, and so every morning when the night shift workers passed through his gate it was his job to check their bags and pockets to make sure that nothing was being stolen.
Things were going along very well the first night on the job until a man pushing a wheelbarrow of newspapers came through the gate. Aha, he thought, that man thinks he can cover up what he is stealing with that newspaper. So he removed the paper only to find nothing. Still he felt that the man was acting strangley, so he questioned him about the paper.
“I get a little extra money from newspapers I recycle, so I go into the lunchroom and pick up all the ones people have thrown away.” The guard let him pass, but decided to keep a close eye on him. The next night it was the same, and the night after that. Week after week it went on. The same guy would push the wheelbarrow of newspapers past the guard’s checkpoint. The guard would always check and find nothing.
Then one night, about a year later, the guard reported for work only to find a message had been left for him telling him to report to the supervisor. He walked into the supervisor’s office and before he could say a word, the boss said, “You’re fired!”
“Fired?” he asked in total surprise. “Why? What did I do?”
“It was your job to make sure that no one stole anything from this plant and you have failed. So you’re fired.”
“Wait a minute, what do you mean failed. Nobody ever stole anything from this place while I was on guard.”
“Oh, really,” the boss answered. “Then how do you count for the fact that there are 365 wheelbarrows missing?”
The Expert answers:
HA HA HA HA number one the whol day 1000 out of 10 =)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)
Ken asks…
Do You Think Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag?
Do You Think Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag?
Further to Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag may I ask Who wants to see Gillard as pro-Israel and anti-Islam?
A regular reader of this site sent this on, exact source unknown, but certainly speaks for itself.
The ALP and Israel is like a disease that no medicine can cure
Australian unionist Paul Howes loves Israel. He supports its criminality, murder of opponents, defends it from everybody and would ideally like to make love to the Jewish state. He’s also one of the key figures behind the recent coup of Julia Gillard when overthrowing Kevin Rudd.
Welcome to the modern Australian Labor Party, where Israel is a state religion.
His column in yesterday’s Sunday Telegraph is a typical rant that conveniently forgets to mention that one of Australia’s leading Zionist lobbyists, Albert Dadon, is actually an Israeli lobbyist. He wields influence but of course we can’t mention this. Furthermore, Howes doesn’t want to see that there is a profound conflict of influence with the Prime Minister’s partner working for a Zionist lobbyist who is trying to affect government policy towards the Middle East. But of course for some, anything related to the Jewish state is beyond criticism. Fat chance:
It hasn’t taken long for the double standards to emerge, in the week since our first female Prime Minister took office.
While it’s significant that Julia Gillard is our first female PM, what’s really significant is how long it took us to get there.
I’m writing this column in the Sydney CBD, where we have a female Lord Mayor and State member, and female federal MP, a female Premier and a female Governor.
In Canberra, there’s a female Governor General and – at last – a female PM. With the exception of the dual-Lord Mayor/Member for Bligh, all these women are, or were appointed by, Labor.
The Liberal Party, on the other hand, is so bereft of female talent that they’ve recycled Julie Bishop as deputy leader three times for different leaders, despite the fact that she’s not considered competent enough to hold the shadow Treasury portfolio.
But the progressive side of politics has always championed women. In my own role as a union official, we have had female leaders of the Australian Council of Trade Unions since 1996, with the newest president, Ged Kearney, taking office in the past week.
She replaces Sharan Burrow, who has been elected as the head of the global trade union movement.
Yet we’ve already seen double standards being applied to our new PM with significant media coverage of Prime Minister Gillard’s hair, clothes, voice and domestic arrangements.
The Melbourne Age carried a front-page story last week about the employment status of the Prime Minister’s partner, Tim Mathieson.
He works as a salesman for a Melbourne property company, chaired by Albert Dadon, prominent in the local Jewish community.
The article implied that, somehow, because Mr Mathieson works for a company associated with a Jewish community member, this would somehow impact on the PM’s stance on foreign policy, particularly in relation to her views on Israel.
It was one of the crassest examples of shoddy journalism I’ve seen. The implication was, firstly, that because Mr Mathieson is a man and the PM a woman, whatever he thinks about the world or who he works for will impact on what Ms Gillard thinks.
The second implication was that, simply because Mr Mathieson works for a company owned by a prominent Jew, his personal views on policy matters will be skewed by his job.
One Canberra press gallery journalist summed it up best on Twitter when he said: “I can’t ever recall a male politician being the subject of claims his wife’s job would influence his views on the Middle East.”
He was spot on, summing up in one sentence the appalling double standards applied to Prime Minister Gillard in the article. In fact, outrage over the article was so intense that even former Age editor Michael Gawenda labelled it “bizarre”.
Mr Mathieson’s employer, apart from being Jewish, is a well-known jazz musician and was chairman of the Melbourne Jazz Festival.
Following the logic of The Age’s article, one could presume that our nation’s leader will redirect the Government’s arts funding solely towards the Australian jazz industry.
Ludicrous, isn’t it? Just as ludicrous as saying that the PM is going to toe some pro-Israel line simply because of who her partner works for. It’s the type of double standards and sexist reporting that belongs in the past.
Julia Gillard has shown she is her own person. It doesn’t matter what her hair looks like. I don’t think anyone is really interested in how she dresses. It doesn’t matter who her partner works for or what their living arrangements are.
What matters is that she’s the best pe
What matters is that she’s the best person for the job and light years ahead of Tony Abbott when it comes to understanding the needs of ordinary Australians. Yes, she’s different from her predecessors, but just like Kevin Rudd, John Howard, Paul Keating and Bob Hawke, she is her own person.
Any suggestion that her partner’s views, or her hairstyle, has any bearing on how she runs the country is laughable at best, sexist at worst.
Paul Howes is national secretary of the Australian Workers’ Union
For more: http://911andmanyunansweredquestions.blogspot.com/2010/07/julia-gillard-is-john-howard-in-drag.htm
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William asks…
Pet store tale, true or not?
I came across this on an internet forum where people were revealing the ‘nasty unknowns’ of jobs they have had in the past.
“Pet shops only sell 2/3 of their puppies before they get too old, become less desireable and therefore less profitable. So, every quarter when The Puppy Truck arrives with new replacement pups, the older ones are loaded on the truck and returned to the breeders to be “recycled” into feed for something else. If it was widely known that all pet shops who sell puppies participated in this you can imagine the results. Therefore The Puppy Truck is designed to hide what it is. It’s a clean white unmarked semi on the outside but stainless steel wall to wall and floor to ceiling inside with small cages along the walls. No lights inside. The sound of three dozen barking, yowling, crying 8 week old pups in that metal box is beyond description. The drivers arrive at the stores after hours to do the swap. They have keys. No employees are -ever- told when they will come due to the fact they love animals and would likely quit en masse if they knew what was taking place. In fact as a rule they are not told about any of this. They order new pups from a breeders FAX sheet and the pups come and go without warning. Only the owner/manager knows and they don’t talk. ”
Do you buy it?
(P.S. Yahoo suggested I put this in Pets>Fish)
” You would also have to be a WEIRD FREAK to wanna kill animals on purpose” we do kill animals for meat. When we have livestock that is unfit to use for human food (like they are too old to be good meat) we grind them up and use them as protein additives in animal feed.
If someone is so heartless to run a puppymill keeping an adult mother in a small pen constantly churning out fresh puppies to sell, do you really think they’d balk at ‘disposing’ of puppies too old to be sold?
Do you think every puppy in a pet-store is eventually sold? Do you think the puppy store brings their too old puppies to the humane society animal shelters?
There are many products like magazines and newspapers and many fresh vegetables, where they only sell 2/3rds and the rest pass their ‘freshness date’. The companies price the items so the 2/3rds that are sold pay for the 1/3 that expires. Do you think that doesn’t happen for puppies?
The Expert answers:
If it’s true it’s just plain sick. All puppies are beautiful, even when fully grown. It just sends out a horrible message that pet-shops care only about making money, not the animals they sell. How old is too old? Is what I’m left wondering… I hope that isn’t true. Gosh the $hit people do for money, why can’t we all be decent human beings, just for a little while?
I’d like to think every puppy in a pet store is eventually sold ( 82 misspellings? )
Interesting point you make about livestock there…
Sick people these days…
Ruth asks…
Parents who can’t control their anger?
I feel like my parents can’t control their anger.
All my life, when my older siblings were children, and since he knew my mother, my dad has been angry and known to have fits of rage. I remember him throwing a chair when I was about three. And he screams, punches walls, breaks things, and generally scares me. Because of that I don’t really like him and have little of a relationship with him. Now that I’m 16 I appericate him for taking care of my family and all that and he’s not as scary anymore.
He gets mad at small things and blows up on them, and when him and my mom are drinking they fight which is what usually leads to him get mad, goes somewhere in the house alone, my mom bothers him, he starts screaming, busting a wall or something, and my mom crying. They’ve been close to getting a divorce.
My mom on the other hand always has to talk loud. Like she gets annoyed with my dad or is proven wrong and she starts almost yelling. In general she talks loud to us when she’s trying to control us and tell us what to do. She gets annoyed with small things. She just emptied the garbage and was outside, than she comes in slamming things, and starts yelling at me how it’s pretty much my fault there are rats in the garage because of the recycling bins we have, and I enforce recyciling, and she starts going on about how I’m sooo lazy despite the fact I take care of the dogs, clean the kitchen, and help her with things more than my brother or father do. My brother doesn’t do anything to help the house out, has no job, my mom use to use the excuse of him having a job so he wouldn’t have to mow the lawn or even put his dishes in the dishwasher.
Like she was fine before she took the garbage out than she comes inside three minutes later yelling at me and having a fit.
I don’t get mad about it anymore. I use to but I don’t want to end up like them so I’ve been working on being less mad and annoyed. I just say things like “Really, you’re going to scream about the garbage” and ask her why she’s yelling at me over something stupid.
I feel like my parents lack communication skills and how to handle things. Like they’re over 40 years old and they always get super annoyed over the stupidest things.
Is there anything I can do? Or any advice or any input on dealing with my parents?
The Expert answers:
My dad is a bit like that…gets overly mad over little things…he like almost explodes, starts swearing at my mom my sister and me and starts doing what hes doing roughly. My whole life i have thought of a way to help him or do somethibg about it and seriously i doubt theres anything you can do..well actually if u think you can convince them of going to some kind of Psycologist that would probably help but reading how ur parents are it might be hard…this is all i have come up with…hope you can find a way to deal with them…the other option is to keep ignoring them like you have until ur older..luck!!!
Joseph asks…
What the hell am I supposed to have on a resume?
I have NEVER had a job in my life. I’m 17.
How am I supposed to create a resume? I have nothing to put on it.
I’ve volunteered with a friend at a music venue a couple of times working at the concession stands and cleaning the bathrooms. But that was only like 5 times and it was probably almost 4 years ago. I’ve also volunteered at a library working on the computer doing posting for the libraries blog, but that was so boring, that was only about 2 weeks and I decided to stop going cause I hated it, I was only doing it because I had to get community service hours.
I was in an advanced after school drama class, I have no interest in acting, but I was only there to do the stage design cause It seemed fun, that lasted about 2 weeks but then they cancelled it.
I was also into the green group (focuses on recycling, environment, etc.), I went to one of the meetings, but then I just started not caring.
I also went out one time with some ppl during school to go out and pick up trash around the area.
If I put those things on my resume, (leaving the fact that I just stopped volunteering at the library) would they contact those places?
I go to the gym everyday, I do my online high school classes, I love animals, I’m fluent in spanish, I like being around people of different ethnicities, I enjoy pretty looking things, I like helping around the house. Are those things that would matter?
The Expert answers:
Most places where you apply for work at 17 don’t require a resume. They usually ask you to fill out a job application form that they provide.
You do want to have references to put on the job application form, though. You want to notify your references before you put their names and contact information on anything. That is your real need, references. Let’s see where you might drum some up.
Do you have teachers for your online high school classes? Have your work habits impressed any of your teachers enough that they would recommend you as a good employee?
Is there anyone at the gym who could recommend you based on your daily attendance, as someone who is committed, maybe?
Robert asks…
Am I a conservative ……….. ?
I don’t relate with many conservatives of today and I call myself an Independant Constitutionalist. But after reading a little from conservatism long ago,I seem to relate more with those older cons ESPecialy compared to those of today. Here’s how I feel. I would like to reduce some of the jobs of the government. I beleive that federal authority should override state authority much less than they do. I also want to make it a point to add that history show us that bad things happen when certain groups are given either to much or to unique power. I think Gov should crack down on corporations over certain things to keep down greedy manipulation of the masses. I wont detail all that but other than that and the few examples i will give,i tjink that the people,their state and fre enterpriZe should do the rest.I think we need them for certain things like police,security,border control,military. Given the fact that I also think that those example ls of government power should be less in some and more in other areas. For instance,I think our military presence in the world should be reevaluated. To save money and to recycle some of those forces toward our US Mexican border.
The Expert answers:
Those are all conservative values. The problem with today’s conservative is they have bent for liberal insanity.
Donna asks…
How would you ask, implore, people to please?
please stop being so harsh in their judgments, their treatment of you. To please consider that I am 63 years old, I have been through hades. I deserve kindness, good treatment. I deserve to be treated well, not be treated so
harshly. I beg them to let me get out of my apartment and go shopping without getting into my auto. They are killing me by making me stay in.
I beg them to tell me how I am offending them. I am not driving a gas guzzler. As little as I drive my car, I hurt nothing. besides that, I recycle and am thrifty.
I am poor. I do not have the money to give to charity without doing without.
I have no really close friends here, just some acquaintances. I am not putting those few down. I am grateful for small favors. I cannot buy protection money from a church. I cannot afford to tithe. Right now, I am too ill and in too much pain to go to church. i am not able to work. I am scared to death regarding my health, with good reason. I do not want to die. Please please stop harassing me. Stay out of my apartment. Don’t make personal references vaguely.
Be yourself. I came here to never see those people back there again, and hopefully no one who reminded me of them. Please treat me
decently.
I have very few belongings. Most of them were not obtained in the town where I lived before coming here. I am keeping my auto. I bought it when I was
a licensed Professional Capable Competent REgistered Nurse who was
qualified, able and competent to do her job, and did it well. I am sick of the
perfectionists who fall way short. I am sick to death of the self righteous
holier than thou double standards and the straining at a gnat and swallowing a camel.
Where I came from, I was a prisoner., not for real, not deserved. I had committed no crime. Told all I was gay so no man would have any interest in me. I was told where to shop, where to work, where to sit in church, what I could wear, how to wear my hair, what shift to work, etc., etc. I moved. I went where I wanted when I wanted. Of course, I cannot dress the way I want to. I must wear clothes that fit, and I cannot afford new clothes. I cannot. I cannot afford to get my hair done. I will go or not go to church as I please. I am not a church member and have total rejection, for the denomination of which I was previously a member. I will not harm them.
My auto is mine, they did not give me anything, never. I am not, and was not a prostitute. I retain my belief in God and Jesus, but I am not a church member, local or invisible or universal.
took pride in being an RN. I was a good nurse, regardless. You cannot
tell me I was not. I know better I earned my license by hard work and study,
I did not cheat. Stop running me down. Stop attacking my achievements and accomplishments. You know absolutely nothing at all, regardless. State your facts, your source. You don’t know the difference between a medical diagnosis and a nursing diagnosis or what a nursing intervention is. You have no right to stalk, harass, judge or criticize me for that to me unless I can
have a chance to do the same to you.
My children: They were not perfect. No one said they were. Were you treated the way we were. Did you have the abuse, the harassment, the discrimination. Did your Mom get attacked twice due to working?
Did they try to murder your children’s mother for no reason. Could there be a good reason? Did they attack your children’s mother twice? Do they want to be like their mother? Did I do anything to cause these things. No. No more than a rape victim asks to be raped. I did not deserve the diseases you probably gave me here on purpose. I have been treated like a second
class citizen. I have. Don’t say I have not. Yes. I have an apartment.
I have not destroyed it. I have not lied about anything. I lived where I lived outside here, where the cost of living was far less, but wages far far lower
for about twelve years. For about 7 or eight years of that, I lived in a horrible shack which was not fit to live in without running water a lot of the time, wood heat for a good while, no ac or ac that hardly worked at all, no flushing toilett in the winter. I carried water from the spring for a good while. I scrimped and scrimped and scrimped to save money on very little pay and put down payments on my auto and car. I vow that all the money I put down on my auto and home were from cash earnings and not credit card money. I saved at the expense of my teeth, legs, lungs, heart, guts , nervous system. No one had compassion for me. I paid two student loan payments a month, they were not federal. I payed probably thousands of interest on that. I went to a real college, earned a real nursing degree, had a real license and was harassed out of it.
I had to let it go.
Please don’t harass me to death. Please let me live in peace. I am taking no money from your pocket, no job from you. Quite the opposite. I owe no
attorneys here. I
The Expert answers:
Your question just went out of my head after the last word i read.
Maria asks…
my parents don’t buy me anything?
now, i don’t ask for much – in fact i only need the necessities but even i can’t have those. i need a coat due to cold weather (plus my old coat is 3 years old and worn out – with most of the buttons lost) and when i asked (because there are sales at this time) they said no – yet my mum is going out to buy herself a jumper even though she has way too many clothes/makeup/hair stuff. see, my mom puts her self first because she views it as ‘her money’ even though she has to support me and my siblings and my dad is plain cheap – he will say no to everything just to save money, which i can kinda understand.
my younger brother saves up any money he can get (including lunch) just so he can buy stuff he needs otherwise he won’t get anything – and sometimes my mom even borrows from him. i know my parents are broke at this time, but i help by recycling my stuff and making the most but i feel like i’m treated as if it’s my fault for existing, how my mom always makes me feel guilty for everything – even birthday gifts, when she knows i appreciate them. and last birthday i didn’t even get anything because i didn’t want to be rude.
now before you ask me to get a job, i’ve handed in CVs with no luck so far so i’m going to call them in a couple days and try again so that i can provide for myself.
do you think this is a normal parent and child dynamic? our household is extremely dysfunctional because of my parents and me and my brother have to deal with this all the time.
The Expert answers:
I think your dad is trying to be responsible, maybe not your mom. Some parents put themselves first because it’s their money. I don’t think that that’s right, but it is how it is.
Keep trying to get a job. Once you’re independant, you will feel a lot better. You’ll actually have money for what you want, and it will be your money, and you don’t have to give it to your parents to borrow, etc. Maybe give some to your little brother so he can eat his lunch.
Good luck! And remember – school first. A job is great but school has to be your priority.
Ken asks…
What would you do when blamed for things that are not your fault at work?
I work at a Chamber of Commerce. There are only two people who work here (my boss and I) and there is a Board of Directors. I take care of all the marketing, including post cards, emails, website and brochures. I made a mistake on a postcard I created for a member of our Board of Directors. I wrote the time for a seminar as PM instead of AM. This was a major mistake because the postcards went out in the mail. I could have sworn that my boss told me to write this, but could didn’t have proof so took the blame. Then I found a note in my recycling bin explaining what to write on the postcard and it said PM (with my bosses handwriting). I have to deal with this person on our BOD a great deal. She talks to me like I am a complete moron. This is compounded by the fact that I made an spelling error once before on a postcard (last year). Now I am making a different postcard for her and she claims she sent me all the information for it. I know she did not because I save all my emails and don’t have it. She thinks I did get it and this is again my error (as if I am prone to mistakes). Should I just let it go? At this point is seems a little silly to throw my boss under the bus, but dealing with a person who talks to me like I am dumb is annoying. I am planning on getting a new job soon anyways.
PS. My rant was a little confusing. It is not my boss that talks to me like I am stupid. It is another woman on our Board of Directors I often have to to marketing brochures for her. I take responsiblity for the spelling error last year. Unfortunately now that she thinks I made another error, she thinks I constantly make mistakes (which I don’t).
PS. My rant was a little confusing. It is not my boss that talks to me like I am stupid. It is another woman on our Board of Directors I often have to to marketing brochures for her. I take responsiblity for the spelling error last year. Unfortunately now that she thinks I made another error, she thinks I constantly make mistakes (which I don’t).
The Expert answers:
Honestly, I’d show my boss the “proof” that the information given to me was from them. “Hey, I found the post-it you sent me. You did write PM. Guess next time I should check with you, right?” I wouldn’t continue to allow someone to blame me for something that wasn’t my fault. Of course I’d be as nice as possible when bringing it up but I’d certainly bring it up. The email thing I’d let go since it’s been longer, but I’d definitely bring things up right away like the post-it. Then Of course I’d find another job since it’s just not working out anyway. The whole reason I’d bring up the post-it though is not to prove that I’m right but to be assertive. Don’t let people treat you like a door-mat. Insist they treat you better–and showing them it was their info- is a way to do that.
Mark asks…
Night Watchman?
A man got a job as a night watchman at a factory. There had been a lot of thefts by the workers on the night shift, and so every morning when the night shift workers passed through his gate it was his job to check their bags and pockets to make sure that nothing was being stolen.
Things were going along very well the first night on the job until a man pushing a wheelbarrow of newspapers came through the gate. Aha, he thought, that man thinks he can cover up what he is stealing with that newspaper. So he removed the paper only to find nothing. Still he felt that the man was acting strangley, so he questioned him about the paper.
“I get a little extra money from newspapers I recycle, so I go into the lunchroom and pick up all the ones people have thrown away.” The guard let him pass, but decided to keep a close eye on him. The next night it was the same, and the night after that. Week after week it went on. The same guy would push the wheelbarrow of newspapers past the guard’s checkpoint. The guard would always check and find nothing.
Then one night, about a year later, the guard reported for work only to find a message had been left for him telling him to report to the supervisor. He walked into the supervisor’s office and before he could say a word, the boss said, “You’re fired!”
“Fired?” he asked in total surprise. “Why? What did I do?”
“It was your job to make sure that no one stole anything from this plant and you have failed. So you’re fired.”
“Wait a minute, what do you mean failed. Nobody ever stole anything from this place while I was on guard.”
“Oh, really,” the boss answered. “Then how do you count for the fact that there are 365 wheelbarrows missing?”
The Expert answers:
HA HA HA HA number one the whol day 1000 out of 10 =)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)=)
Paul asks…
Do You Think Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag?
Do You Think Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag?
Further to Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag may I ask Who wants to see Gillard as pro-Israel and anti-Islam?
A regular reader of this site sent this on, exact source unknown, but certainly speaks for itself.
The ALP and Israel is like a disease that no medicine can cure
Australian unionist Paul Howes loves Israel. He supports its criminality, murder of opponents, defends it from everybody and would ideally like to make love to the Jewish state. He’s also one of the key figures behind the recent coup of Julia Gillard when overthrowing Kevin Rudd.
Welcome to the modern Australian Labor Party, where Israel is a state religion.
His column in yesterday’s Sunday Telegraph is a typical rant that conveniently forgets to mention that one of Australia’s leading Zionist lobbyists, Albert Dadon, is actually an Israeli lobbyist. He wields influence but of course we can’t mention this. Furthermore, Howes doesn’t want to see that there is a profound conflict of influence with the Prime Minister’s partner working for a Zionist lobbyist who is trying to affect government policy towards the Middle East. But of course for some, anything related to the Jewish state is beyond criticism. Fat chance:
It hasn’t taken long for the double standards to emerge, in the week since our first female Prime Minister took office.
While it’s significant that Julia Gillard is our first female PM, what’s really significant is how long it took us to get there.
I’m writing this column in the Sydney CBD, where we have a female Lord Mayor and State member, and female federal MP, a female Premier and a female Governor.
In Canberra, there’s a female Governor General and – at last – a female PM. With the exception of the dual-Lord Mayor/Member for Bligh, all these women are, or were appointed by, Labor.
The Liberal Party, on the other hand, is so bereft of female talent that they’ve recycled Julie Bishop as deputy leader three times for different leaders, despite the fact that she’s not considered competent enough to hold the shadow Treasury portfolio.
But the progressive side of politics has always championed women. In my own role as a union official, we have had female leaders of the Australian Council of Trade Unions since 1996, with the newest president, Ged Kearney, taking office in the past week.
She replaces Sharan Burrow, who has been elected as the head of the global trade union movement.
Yet we’ve already seen double standards being applied to our new PM with significant media coverage of Prime Minister Gillard’s hair, clothes, voice and domestic arrangements.
The Melbourne Age carried a front-page story last week about the employment status of the Prime Minister’s partner, Tim Mathieson.
He works as a salesman for a Melbourne property company, chaired by Albert Dadon, prominent in the local Jewish community.
The article implied that, somehow, because Mr Mathieson works for a company associated with a Jewish community member, this would somehow impact on the PM’s stance on foreign policy, particularly in relation to her views on Israel.
It was one of the crassest examples of shoddy journalism I’ve seen. The implication was, firstly, that because Mr Mathieson is a man and the PM a woman, whatever he thinks about the world or who he works for will impact on what Ms Gillard thinks.
The second implication was that, simply because Mr Mathieson works for a company owned by a prominent Jew, his personal views on policy matters will be skewed by his job.
One Canberra press gallery journalist summed it up best on Twitter when he said: “I can’t ever recall a male politician being the subject of claims his wife’s job would influence his views on the Middle East.”
He was spot on, summing up in one sentence the appalling double standards applied to Prime Minister Gillard in the article. In fact, outrage over the article was so intense that even former Age editor Michael Gawenda labelled it “bizarre”.
Mr Mathieson’s employer, apart from being Jewish, is a well-known jazz musician and was chairman of the Melbourne Jazz Festival.
Following the logic of The Age’s article, one could presume that our nation’s leader will redirect the Government’s arts funding solely towards the Australian jazz industry.
Ludicrous, isn’t it? Just as ludicrous as saying that the PM is going to toe some pro-Israel line simply because of who her partner works for. It’s the type of double standards and sexist reporting that belongs in the past.
Julia Gillard has shown she is her own person. It doesn’t matter what her hair looks like. I don’t think anyone is really interested in how she dresses. It doesn’t matter who her partner works for or what their living arrangements are.
What matters is that she’s the best pe
What matters is that she’s the best person for the job and light years ahead of Tony Abbott when it comes to understanding the needs of ordinary Australians. Yes, she’s different from her predecessors, but just like Kevin Rudd, John Howard, Paul Keating and Bob Hawke, she is her own person.
Any suggestion that her partner’s views, or her hairstyle, has any bearing on how she runs the country is laughable at best, sexist at worst.
Paul Howes is national secretary of the Australian Workers’ Union
For more: http://911andmanyunansweredquestions.blogspot.com/2010/07/julia-gillard-is-john-howard-in-drag.htm
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Correctomondo!
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Sandy asks…
what are some good ideas to propose in my work place for some “Green” ideas besides recycling, light bulbs ect
I am part of a “green team” at my job. We are looking for different ways to make the work place better for the enviroment. the obvious solutions are recycling bins, energy efficient light bulbs ect. has anyone heard of/proposed or know of some great ideas I can bring up?
The Expert answers:
The Green Life’s list of 10 Ways to Go Green at Work:
http://sierraclub.typepad.com/greenlife/2007/03/10_ways_to_go_g.html
I think it was very useful.. Good Luck!
Paul asks…
If there were a massive “green jobs” program, wouldn’t most of the jobs go to red states?
Alcohol production, wind power, solar power and vegetable oil—don’t they all come from red states? The only blue state activity might be aluminum can recycling. So why all the talk about urban “green job communities”?
The Expert answers:
No. Obama spends our money on his supporters…like the United Auto Workers. The ‘green jobs’ will go wherever there are Democrats.
Susan asks…
what kind of small jobs should i do?
im trying to earn money to donate to this project at my church for the poor orphans in india
and i don’t know what kind of small jobs i can do
all i can think of is recycling, babysitting for my aunts, and giving piano lessons to the local kids in my neighborhood…
help plz?
The Expert answers:
Start an errand and odd job service in your neighborhood. Print up flyers and hand them out to your neighbors. If business picks up, hire some of your friends to help you.
Mandy asks…
Does anyone have any info on recycled spray insulation that was featured on Mike Rowe’s Dirtiest Jobs?
I saw an episode about insulation spray technician and they were spraying some sort of recycled material that really reduces sound and insulates walls within a house. Any info would be great.
The Expert answers:
Did not see that one but there is one out that is no voc that is made of soy bean . It’s a very tight holding foam
William asks…
Why do people assume that money is wasted on public sector jobs?
Where do you think that money goes? I mean, teachers are paid but they have to live right? They use that money to buy food, homes, cars, energy, etc. It’s not like once you dump money into a public sector job its automatically wasted. Even spending money on things like buildings, the government needs to pay for labour, materials, etc. and it is all recycled through the private sector! I really don’t understand where people are coming from when they say the government “wastes” this money.
The Expert answers:
The government does waste money because of mismanagement. That doesn’t mean all public-sector jobs are “wastes,” just that for every taxpayer dollar that goes in, less than one dollar of value actually comes out.
You can’t convince a reasonable person that government mismanagement and waste produce a net economic gain because the people who hold public-sector jobs spend money in the economy. The people who paid that tax money would have also spent that money in the economy, except there wouldn’t have been waste in a huge bureaucratic system.
Linda asks…
plastics recycling sales job?
Hi,
I have a friend who started a plastics recycling co a few years ago and seems to be doing well. He’s asking me to join as a salesman.
Is this still a good industry to be involved with?
The Expert answers:
Since he has been in business a few years it sounds like a good opportunity.
The company is established and should have a credible reputation.
The industry as a whole is gaining more of the public’s attention.
People concerned with the environment are opting for rapidly renewable or recycled resources.
Recycled plastic is being sought as a green building material for LEED rated buildings,
Mark asks…
Overseas contractor jobs for unexperienced 18 year olds?
Im 18 with no real experience. i got hurt in basic training and opted out instead of recycling. Uncle Sam is giving me a run around getting back in and being an assistant manager at a food service place is getting me nowhere in life. so i was looking into contractor jobs overseas.
Is there any companies that hire without experience, including jobs in conflict zones. Security and driving jobs are what interest me but im open to alot. Any suggestions?
The Expert answers:
Garbage Collector…………apply usjobs.org………………
Robert asks…
Questions about recycling?
1.How does recycling save money?
2.How does recycling save our natural resources?
3.How does recycling create jobs?
Thanks guys,
Katie.
The Expert answers:
1. Because recycling is less energy intensive than mining and refining. For example it takes 90% less energy to recycle aluminium cans instead of mining for them again.
2. Because said natural resources will run out at some point, and recycling just turns junk into useful stuff again.
3. It creates jobs and takes away jobs at the same time. You create jobs at recycling plants, collection centers, etc. But you take away jobs from the mining and refining industry (which is kind of a good thing considering how unsafe mining is).
John asks…
need to raise money for recycling business in return I will pay for colleg for 5 each year?
trying to raise money for recycling business I have buyer & access to recycleable material and can profit about $10.000.000 to $15.000.000 a year & about ten new job will oper up. try the bank but no help.
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So what was the question?
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Mandy asks…
Pet store tale, true or not?
I came across this on an internet forum where people were revealing the ‘nasty unknowns’ of jobs they have had in the past.
“Pet shops only sell 2/3 of their puppies before they get too old, become less desireable and therefore less profitable. So, every quarter when The Puppy Truck arrives with new replacement pups, the older ones are loaded on the truck and returned to the breeders to be “recycled” into feed for something else. If it was widely known that all pet shops who sell puppies participated in this you can imagine the results. Therefore The Puppy Truck is designed to hide what it is. It’s a clean white unmarked semi on the outside but stainless steel wall to wall and floor to ceiling inside with small cages along the walls. No lights inside. The sound of three dozen barking, yowling, crying 8 week old pups in that metal box is beyond description. The drivers arrive at the stores after hours to do the swap. They have keys. No employees are -ever- told when they will come due to the fact they love animals and would likely quit en masse if they knew what was taking place. In fact as a rule they are not told about any of this. They order new pups from a breeders FAX sheet and the pups come and go without warning. Only the owner/manager knows and they don’t talk. ”
Do you buy it?
(P.S. Yahoo suggested I put this in Pets>Fish)
” You would also have to be a WEIRD FREAK to wanna kill animals on purpose” we do kill animals for meat. When we have livestock that is unfit to use for human food (like they are too old to be good meat) we grind them up and use them as protein additives in animal feed.
If someone is so heartless to run a puppymill keeping an adult mother in a small pen constantly churning out fresh puppies to sell, do you really think they’d balk at ‘disposing’ of puppies too old to be sold?
Do you think every puppy in a pet-store is eventually sold? Do you think the puppy store brings their too old puppies to the humane society animal shelters?
There are many products like magazines and newspapers and many fresh vegetables, where they only sell 2/3rds and the rest pass their ‘freshness date’. The companies price the items so the 2/3rds that are sold pay for the 1/3 that expires. Do you think that doesn’t happen for puppies?
The Expert answers:
If it’s true it’s just plain sick. All puppies are beautiful, even when fully grown. It just sends out a horrible message that pet-shops care only about making money, not the animals they sell. How old is too old? Is what I’m left wondering… I hope that isn’t true. Gosh the $hit people do for money, why can’t we all be decent human beings, just for a little while?
I’d like to think every puppy in a pet store is eventually sold ( 82 misspellings? )
Interesting point you make about livestock there…
Sick people these days…
Richard asks…
Parents who can’t control their anger?
I feel like my parents can’t control their anger.
All my life, when my older siblings were children, and since he knew my mother, my dad has been angry and known to have fits of rage. I remember him throwing a chair when I was about three. And he screams, punches walls, breaks things, and generally scares me. Because of that I don’t really like him and have little of a relationship with him. Now that I’m 16 I appericate him for taking care of my family and all that and he’s not as scary anymore.
He gets mad at small things and blows up on them, and when him and my mom are drinking they fight which is what usually leads to him get mad, goes somewhere in the house alone, my mom bothers him, he starts screaming, busting a wall or something, and my mom crying. They’ve been close to getting a divorce.
My mom on the other hand always has to talk loud. Like she gets annoyed with my dad or is proven wrong and she starts almost yelling. In general she talks loud to us when she’s trying to control us and tell us what to do. She gets annoyed with small things. She just emptied the garbage and was outside, than she comes in slamming things, and starts yelling at me how it’s pretty much my fault there are rats in the garage because of the recycling bins we have, and I enforce recyciling, and she starts going on about how I’m sooo lazy despite the fact I take care of the dogs, clean the kitchen, and help her with things more than my brother or father do. My brother doesn’t do anything to help the house out, has no job, my mom use to use the excuse of him having a job so he wouldn’t have to mow the lawn or even put his dishes in the dishwasher.
Like she was fine before she took the garbage out than she comes inside three minutes later yelling at me and having a fit.
I don’t get mad about it anymore. I use to but I don’t want to end up like them so I’ve been working on being less mad and annoyed. I just say things like “Really, you’re going to scream about the garbage” and ask her why she’s yelling at me over something stupid.
I feel like my parents lack communication skills and how to handle things. Like they’re over 40 years old and they always get super annoyed over the stupidest things.
Is there anything I can do? Or any advice or any input on dealing with my parents?
The Expert answers:
My dad is a bit like that…gets overly mad over little things…he like almost explodes, starts swearing at my mom my sister and me and starts doing what hes doing roughly. My whole life i have thought of a way to help him or do somethibg about it and seriously i doubt theres anything you can do..well actually if u think you can convince them of going to some kind of Psycologist that would probably help but reading how ur parents are it might be hard…this is all i have come up with…hope you can find a way to deal with them…the other option is to keep ignoring them like you have until ur older..luck!!!
David asks…
What the hell am I supposed to have on a resume?
I have NEVER had a job in my life. I’m 17.
How am I supposed to create a resume? I have nothing to put on it.
I’ve volunteered with a friend at a music venue a couple of times working at the concession stands and cleaning the bathrooms. But that was only like 5 times and it was probably almost 4 years ago. I’ve also volunteered at a library working on the computer doing posting for the libraries blog, but that was so boring, that was only about 2 weeks and I decided to stop going cause I hated it, I was only doing it because I had to get community service hours.
I was in an advanced after school drama class, I have no interest in acting, but I was only there to do the stage design cause It seemed fun, that lasted about 2 weeks but then they cancelled it.
I was also into the green group (focuses on recycling, environment, etc.), I went to one of the meetings, but then I just started not caring.
I also went out one time with some ppl during school to go out and pick up trash around the area.
If I put those things on my resume, (leaving the fact that I just stopped volunteering at the library) would they contact those places?
I go to the gym everyday, I do my online high school classes, I love animals, I’m fluent in spanish, I like being around people of different ethnicities, I enjoy pretty looking things, I like helping around the house. Are those things that would matter?
The Expert answers:
Most places where you apply for work at 17 don’t require a resume. They usually ask you to fill out a job application form that they provide.
You do want to have references to put on the job application form, though. You want to notify your references before you put their names and contact information on anything. That is your real need, references. Let’s see where you might drum some up.
Do you have teachers for your online high school classes? Have your work habits impressed any of your teachers enough that they would recommend you as a good employee?
Is there anyone at the gym who could recommend you based on your daily attendance, as someone who is committed, maybe?
Helen asks…
Am I a conservative ……….. ?
I don’t relate with many conservatives of today and I call myself an Independant Constitutionalist. But after reading a little from conservatism long ago,I seem to relate more with those older cons ESPecialy compared to those of today. Here’s how I feel. I would like to reduce some of the jobs of the government. I beleive that federal authority should override state authority much less than they do. I also want to make it a point to add that history show us that bad things happen when certain groups are given either to much or to unique power. I think Gov should crack down on corporations over certain things to keep down greedy manipulation of the masses. I wont detail all that but other than that and the few examples i will give,i tjink that the people,their state and fre enterpriZe should do the rest.I think we need them for certain things like police,security,border control,military. Given the fact that I also think that those example ls of government power should be less in some and more in other areas. For instance,I think our military presence in the world should be reevaluated. To save money and to recycle some of those forces toward our US Mexican border.
The Expert answers:
Those are all conservative values. The problem with today’s conservative is they have bent for liberal insanity.
Sharon asks…
How would you ask, implore, people to please?
please stop being so harsh in their judgments, their treatment of you. To please consider that I am 63 years old, I have been through hades. I deserve kindness, good treatment. I deserve to be treated well, not be treated so
harshly. I beg them to let me get out of my apartment and go shopping without getting into my auto. They are killing me by making me stay in.
I beg them to tell me how I am offending them. I am not driving a gas guzzler. As little as I drive my car, I hurt nothing. besides that, I recycle and am thrifty.
I am poor. I do not have the money to give to charity without doing without.
I have no really close friends here, just some acquaintances. I am not putting those few down. I am grateful for small favors. I cannot buy protection money from a church. I cannot afford to tithe. Right now, I am too ill and in too much pain to go to church. i am not able to work. I am scared to death regarding my health, with good reason. I do not want to die. Please please stop harassing me. Stay out of my apartment. Don’t make personal references vaguely.
Be yourself. I came here to never see those people back there again, and hopefully no one who reminded me of them. Please treat me
decently.
I have very few belongings. Most of them were not obtained in the town where I lived before coming here. I am keeping my auto. I bought it when I was
a licensed Professional Capable Competent REgistered Nurse who was
qualified, able and competent to do her job, and did it well. I am sick of the
perfectionists who fall way short. I am sick to death of the self righteous
holier than thou double standards and the straining at a gnat and swallowing a camel.
Where I came from, I was a prisoner., not for real, not deserved. I had committed no crime. Told all I was gay so no man would have any interest in me. I was told where to shop, where to work, where to sit in church, what I could wear, how to wear my hair, what shift to work, etc., etc. I moved. I went where I wanted when I wanted. Of course, I cannot dress the way I want to. I must wear clothes that fit, and I cannot afford new clothes. I cannot. I cannot afford to get my hair done. I will go or not go to church as I please. I am not a church member and have total rejection, for the denomination of which I was previously a member. I will not harm them.
My auto is mine, they did not give me anything, never. I am not, and was not a prostitute. I retain my belief in God and Jesus, but I am not a church member, local or invisible or universal.
took pride in being an RN. I was a good nurse, regardless. You cannot
tell me I was not. I know better I earned my license by hard work and study,
I did not cheat. Stop running me down. Stop attacking my achievements and accomplishments. You know absolutely nothing at all, regardless. State your facts, your source. You don’t know the difference between a medical diagnosis and a nursing diagnosis or what a nursing intervention is. You have no right to stalk, harass, judge or criticize me for that to me unless I can
have a chance to do the same to you.
My children: They were not perfect. No one said they were. Were you treated the way we were. Did you have the abuse, the harassment, the discrimination. Did your Mom get attacked twice due to working?
Did they try to murder your children’s mother for no reason. Could there be a good reason? Did they attack your children’s mother twice? Do they want to be like their mother? Did I do anything to cause these things. No. No more than a rape victim asks to be raped. I did not deserve the diseases you probably gave me here on purpose. I have been treated like a second
class citizen. I have. Don’t say I have not. Yes. I have an apartment.
I have not destroyed it. I have not lied about anything. I lived where I lived outside here, where the cost of living was far less, but wages far far lower
for about twelve years. For about 7 or eight years of that, I lived in a horrible shack which was not fit to live in without running water a lot of the time, wood heat for a good while, no ac or ac that hardly worked at all, no flushing toilett in the winter. I carried water from the spring for a good while. I scrimped and scrimped and scrimped to save money on very little pay and put down payments on my auto and car. I vow that all the money I put down on my auto and home were from cash earnings and not credit card money. I saved at the expense of my teeth, legs, lungs, heart, guts , nervous system. No one had compassion for me. I paid two student loan payments a month, they were not federal. I payed probably thousands of interest on that. I went to a real college, earned a real nursing degree, had a real license and was harassed out of it.
I had to let it go.
Please don’t harass me to death. Please let me live in peace. I am taking no money from your pocket, no job from you. Quite the opposite. I owe no
attorneys here. I
The Expert answers:
Your question just went out of my head after the last word i read.
Chris asks…
my parents don’t buy me anything?
now, i don’t ask for much – in fact i only need the necessities but even i can’t have those. i need a coat due to cold weather (plus my old coat is 3 years old and worn out – with most of the buttons lost) and when i asked (because there are sales at this time) they said no – yet my mum is going out to buy herself a jumper even though she has way too many clothes/makeup/hair stuff. see, my mom puts her self first because she views it as ‘her money’ even though she has to support me and my siblings and my dad is plain cheap – he will say no to everything just to save money, which i can kinda understand.
my younger brother saves up any money he can get (including lunch) just so he can buy stuff he needs otherwise he won’t get anything – and sometimes my mom even borrows from him. i know my parents are broke at this time, but i help by recycling my stuff and making the most but i feel like i’m treated as if it’s my fault for existing, how my mom always makes me feel guilty for everything – even birthday gifts, when she knows i appreciate them. and last birthday i didn’t even get anything because i didn’t want to be rude.
now before you ask me to get a job, i’ve handed in CVs with no luck so far so i’m going to call them in a couple days and try again so that i can provide for myself.
do you think this is a normal parent and child dynamic? our household is extremely dysfunctional because of my parents and me and my brother have to deal with this all the time.
The Expert answers:
I think your dad is trying to be responsible, maybe not your mom. Some parents put themselves first because it’s their money. I don’t think that that’s right, but it is how it is.
Keep trying to get a job. Once you’re independant, you will feel a lot better. You’ll actually have money for what you want, and it will be your money, and you don’t have to give it to your parents to borrow, etc. Maybe give some to your little brother so he can eat his lunch.
Good luck! And remember – school first. A job is great but school has to be your priority.
Michael asks…
What would you do when blamed for things that are not your fault at work?
I work at a Chamber of Commerce. There are only two people who work here (my boss and I) and there is a Board of Directors. I take care of all the marketing, including post cards, emails, website and brochures. I made a mistake on a postcard I created for a member of our Board of Directors. I wrote the time for a seminar as PM instead of AM. This was a major mistake because the postcards went out in the mail. I could have sworn that my boss told me to write this, but could didn’t have proof so took the blame. Then I found a note in my recycling bin explaining what to write on the postcard and it said PM (with my bosses handwriting). I have to deal with this person on our BOD a great deal. She talks to me like I am a complete moron. This is compounded by the fact that I made an spelling error once before on a postcard (last year). Now I am making a different postcard for her and she claims she sent me all the information for it. I know she did not because I save all my emails and don’t have it. She thinks I did get it and this is again my error (as if I am prone to mistakes). Should I just let it go? At this point is seems a little silly to throw my boss under the bus, but dealing with a person who talks to me like I am dumb is annoying. I am planning on getting a new job soon anyways.
PS. My rant was a little confusing. It is not my boss that talks to me like I am stupid. It is another woman on our Board of Directors I often have to to marketing brochures for her. I take responsiblity for the spelling error last year. Unfortunately now that she thinks I made another error, she thinks I constantly make mistakes (which I don’t).
PS. My rant was a little confusing. It is not my boss that talks to me like I am stupid. It is another woman on our Board of Directors I often have to to marketing brochures for her. I take responsiblity for the spelling error last year. Unfortunately now that she thinks I made another error, she thinks I constantly make mistakes (which I don’t).
The Expert answers:
Honestly, I’d show my boss the “proof” that the information given to me was from them. “Hey, I found the post-it you sent me. You did write PM. Guess next time I should check with you, right?” I wouldn’t continue to allow someone to blame me for something that wasn’t my fault. Of course I’d be as nice as possible when bringing it up but I’d certainly bring it up. The email thing I’d let go since it’s been longer, but I’d definitely bring things up right away like the post-it. Then Of course I’d find another job since it’s just not working out anyway. The whole reason I’d bring up the post-it though is not to prove that I’m right but to be assertive. Don’t let people treat you like a door-mat. Insist they treat you better–and showing them it was their info- is a way to do that.
Donald asks…
Night Watchman?
A man got a job as a night watchman at a factory. There had been a lot of thefts by the workers on the night shift, and so every morning when the night shift workers passed through his gate it was his job to check their bags and pockets to make sure that nothing was being stolen.
Things were going along very well the first night on the job until a man pushing a wheelbarrow of newspapers came through the gate. Aha, he thought, that man thinks he can cover up what he is stealing with that newspaper. So he removed the paper only to find nothing. Still he felt that the man was acting strangley, so he questioned him about the paper.
“I get a little extra money from newspapers I recycle, so I go into the lunchroom and pick up all the ones people have thrown away.” The guard let him pass, but decided to keep a close eye on him. The next night it was the same, and the night after that. Week after week it went on. The same guy would push the wheelbarrow of newspapers past the guard’s checkpoint. The guard would always check and find nothing.
Then one night, about a year later, the guard reported for work only to find a message had been left for him telling him to report to the supervisor. He walked into the supervisor’s office and before he could say a word, the boss said, “You’re fired!”
“Fired?” he asked in total surprise. “Why? What did I do?”
“It was your job to make sure that no one stole anything from this plant and you have failed. So you’re fired.”
“Wait a minute, what do you mean failed. Nobody ever stole anything from this place while I was on guard.”
“Oh, really,” the boss answered. “Then how do you count for the fact that there are 365 wheelbarrows missing?”
The Expert answers:
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Linda asks…
Do You Think Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag?
Do You Think Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag?
Further to Julia Gillard is John Howard in Drag may I ask Who wants to see Gillard as pro-Israel and anti-Islam?
A regular reader of this site sent this on, exact source unknown, but certainly speaks for itself.
The ALP and Israel is like a disease that no medicine can cure
Australian unionist Paul Howes loves Israel. He supports its criminality, murder of opponents, defends it from everybody and would ideally like to make love to the Jewish state. He’s also one of the key figures behind the recent coup of Julia Gillard when overthrowing Kevin Rudd.
Welcome to the modern Australian Labor Party, where Israel is a state religion.
His column in yesterday’s Sunday Telegraph is a typical rant that conveniently forgets to mention that one of Australia’s leading Zionist lobbyists, Albert Dadon, is actually an Israeli lobbyist. He wields influence but of course we can’t mention this. Furthermore, Howes doesn’t want to see that there is a profound conflict of influence with the Prime Minister’s partner working for a Zionist lobbyist who is trying to affect government policy towards the Middle East. But of course for some, anything related to the Jewish state is beyond criticism. Fat chance:
It hasn’t taken long for the double standards to emerge, in the week since our first female Prime Minister took office.
While it’s significant that Julia Gillard is our first female PM, what’s really significant is how long it took us to get there.
I’m writing this column in the Sydney CBD, where we have a female Lord Mayor and State member, and female federal MP, a female Premier and a female Governor.
In Canberra, there’s a female Governor General and – at last – a female PM. With the exception of the dual-Lord Mayor/Member for Bligh, all these women are, or were appointed by, Labor.
The Liberal Party, on the other hand, is so bereft of female talent that they’ve recycled Julie Bishop as deputy leader three times for different leaders, despite the fact that she’s not considered competent enough to hold the shadow Treasury portfolio.
But the progressive side of politics has always championed women. In my own role as a union official, we have had female leaders of the Australian Council of Trade Unions since 1996, with the newest president, Ged Kearney, taking office in the past week.
She replaces Sharan Burrow, who has been elected as the head of the global trade union movement.
Yet we’ve already seen double standards being applied to our new PM with significant media coverage of Prime Minister Gillard’s hair, clothes, voice and domestic arrangements.
The Melbourne Age carried a front-page story last week about the employment status of the Prime Minister’s partner, Tim Mathieson.
He works as a salesman for a Melbourne property company, chaired by Albert Dadon, prominent in the local Jewish community.
The article implied that, somehow, because Mr Mathieson works for a company associated with a Jewish community member, this would somehow impact on the PM’s stance on foreign policy, particularly in relation to her views on Israel.
It was one of the crassest examples of shoddy journalism I’ve seen. The implication was, firstly, that because Mr Mathieson is a man and the PM a woman, whatever he thinks about the world or who he works for will impact on what Ms Gillard thinks.
The second implication was that, simply because Mr Mathieson works for a company owned by a prominent Jew, his personal views on policy matters will be skewed by his job.
One Canberra press gallery journalist summed it up best on Twitter when he said: “I can’t ever recall a male politician being the subject of claims his wife’s job would influence his views on the Middle East.”
He was spot on, summing up in one sentence the appalling double standards applied to Prime Minister Gillard in the article. In fact, outrage over the article was so intense that even former Age editor Michael Gawenda labelled it “bizarre”.
Mr Mathieson’s employer, apart from being Jewish, is a well-known jazz musician and was chairman of the Melbourne Jazz Festival.
Following the logic of The Age’s article, one could presume that our nation’s leader will redirect the Government’s arts funding solely towards the Australian jazz industry.
Ludicrous, isn’t it? Just as ludicrous as saying that the PM is going to toe some pro-Israel line simply because of who her partner works for. It’s the type of double standards and sexist reporting that belongs in the past.
Julia Gillard has shown she is her own person. It doesn’t matter what her hair looks like. I don’t think anyone is really interested in how she dresses. It doesn’t matter who her partner works for or what their living arrangements are.
What matters is that she’s the best pe
What matters is that she’s the best person for the job and light years ahead of Tony Abbott when it comes to understanding the needs of ordinary Australians. Yes, she’s different from her predecessors, but just like Kevin Rudd, John Howard, Paul Keating and Bob Hawke, she is her own person.
Any suggestion that her partner’s views, or her hairstyle, has any bearing on how she runs the country is laughable at best, sexist at worst.
Paul Howes is national secretary of the Australian Workers’ Union
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